Not just in the bedroom... that bit I can do.... but what really makes them tick, I always seem to get it terribly wrong!
2006-09-14 22:35:20 · 26 answers · asked by James M 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Yes...yes...done all of what you suggest....but sometimes it doesn't appear to be enough!
2006-09-14 22:39:02 · update #1
Rizzo... simply not true.
2006-09-14 22:39:24 · update #2
Take off your w*nker hat and tosser shades. That'll be a start.
2006-09-14 23:07:17 · answer #1 · answered by The Questionator 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel so sorry for you guys today, I don't think you are getting it wrong at all, I honestly believe some women expect far too much of you, in a relationship there are always two people and to get to a point were you love and respect each other without the aggro you have to learn from each other and listen to each others needs and wants, relationships are a two way thing and it should never be left up to one of you to make the decisions and do the running, both of you have to work at it as hard as each other, but you could try a few of these things I guess.
Always look into her eyes when you talk to her,
Never keep your feelings to yourself,
Talk about whats on your mind,
Tell her you love her and mean it,
Never try to buy her affections,
Hold her, just because you can,
Don't slate her family or friends,
Never shout at her for no reason,
Always remember birthdays and anniversaries,
Buy silly little gifts just to show you love her,
Don't laugh at her when she is emotional over something silly,
Always but always expect the same from her too, good luck.
2006-09-15 10:11:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be able to listen. That is the KEY skill a man can have. If you simply listen then you will know exactly what she wants and how to please her. IF she doesnt give you much to listen to then your in trouble if you aint got no inititive. Just make her feel special, like there is no one else you are even remotely bothered by. Take time out to really think of how to make her happy, each one of us are individuals so when you finally figure one of us out, you still got the other 8 million to go, do you feel me. !!
Just go with her flow man, you will soon find out what makes her "tick", if you dont, then she aint for you!!
2006-09-15 06:09:47 · answer #3 · answered by london lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One really important thing that I can think of is that you support her in her decisions, (as long as they are legal and reasonable) If she wants to change careers, or change her hair color or something like that. (as long as she supports you the same!) I think that is very important! You also have to do what is going to make you happy, if you are not happy than you cannot make her happy. (I'm having this porblem right now, he is sooooo unhappy with everything and he takes it out on me.....not my fault he cannot find the good in the day...way to negative) just keep everything light and unpressured, sure theres things that cannot be taken lightly, but deal with that as it comes. She see's your reactions, personality, attitude, everything much more deeply than you may know. Girls read deeper into things than they need to, help her not to do that!!! I hope this helps, I could write all day about this, but like I said, I'm having the same problem.....Good luck!!
2006-09-15 06:01:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to view her with dignity, respect and love. Always rememer that women are weaker vessel even if she does not appreciate ur care at times... remember, no matter how good you may be... u can not whip or punish yourself whenever you make a mistake so, view a woman that way in trying to please her.
2006-09-15 06:32:20 · answer #5 · answered by signorina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me, its honesty, openness, affection and attention.
Just listen to what she says, tell her how you feel, give her lots of cuddles and the occasional thoughtful gift (doesn't have to be expensive - a homemade card, her favourite chocolate bar - just something that shows you've listened and that you care)
2006-09-15 05:37:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a women I'll tell you the truth. You can't please us. As soon as we get what we think we want, we want something different. So do yourself a favor and just continue to do the best that you can, and grasp that fleeting moment of happiness while you can because it never last for long.
2006-09-15 06:40:04 · answer #7 · answered by Aleaha S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Attention! Most women need lots of it, dont take her for granted, tell her shes beautiful every day and always listen act interested even if your not. Make her laugh and buy chocolates
2006-09-15 06:00:36 · answer #8 · answered by Jo L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Considering every woman is different, you need to find out what pleases that particular woman, in general. What works for one woman surely will not work for every woman. With that said, remember, women are allowed to change their minds (and they won't disappoint). It's all about balance and patience.
2006-09-15 05:41:23 · answer #9 · answered by n/a 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have found that the following helps:
Be polite, honest, respectful and complimentary. Then again I have the best wife in the world.
2006-09-15 05:37:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surprise her. Just when she least expects it, when she thinks you've fallen into a slump, turn up with jewelry, flowers, a vacation.... Be impulsive. If you're perfect all the time, it's expected all the time. If you do it when it's not expected, you're gold.
2006-09-15 06:00:53 · answer #11 · answered by 42ITUS™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋