any advice would be wonderful
2006-09-14 21:52:29 · 14 answers · asked by little one 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Hold off til you're married... he can't leave you as easily!
2006-09-14 21:54:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are in the same boat, darl! The best place to start is by tracking your periods - try a site like www.mycycle.com where you will be able to put your periods in and it will tell you when you are ovulating.
The other way is to use devices to help you keep track of ovulation such as fertility urine strips or fertility microscopes. These will help you work out if you have an LH surge which means you are ovulating.
There is only a window of about 2 - 3 days in your cycle upon where you can get pregnant. Try having sex 12 days after the start of your period and then for another 5 days afterwards - the 14th day is the most important.
The other thing is to relax! These things happen when you least expect it! I have been trying to concieve for 3 months now (I have 2 other Children) and it is SO frustrating! With my other 2, it just happened when I wasn't thinking about it!
Good luck! xoxo
2006-09-15 04:56:57 · answer #2 · answered by iamabeetle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey! Ignore all the smartass remarks that people have been giving you. Its discusting what some people have said to you.
You know when you are ready for a baby not them. And if they believe in babies after marriage then tell them to wake up into the days of now!
Anyway...! LOL you can try downloading an ovulation calendar that will give you the right days to try and concieve on. If i remember correctly the most likely days of concieving are on and a couple of days around the 14th day from the start of your last period. Thats how we did it and it worked first time round. Me and my boyfriend now have a beautiful 1year old baby boy! He's the best thing that has ever happened to us and we wouldnt have it any other way! Goodluck, i hope you get your little one soon!
2006-09-15 08:30:59 · answer #3 · answered by Jordy[♥] 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We are in the same boat.....me and my husband have been trying to 6months now and no luck :( been married for 14months now, its funny when ur not married you try to NOT get pregnant and the minute you decide your ready its difficult....ive tried the ovulation calendars, tried everytime we finish to have legs up in air for 30mins, ive been taking folic acid prenatal vitamins (pregnacare) and NOTHING! Thinking about it too much is stressful and every month getting dissapointed is even more stressful i know exactly what your going through but you should consider getting married at least before starting a family....thats if you agree with marriage and your 1000% sure. Good Luck
2006-09-15 07:45:31 · answer #4 · answered by missy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all ignore the dumb *** remarks these people here are such smart asses , but never the less i think u both need to be ready to knoe that a baby is something that will be there for ever and ever, not a temp thing the reason i tell u thid is becuase i know of alot of boyfriend girlfriend relationships that have a baby and they don't work out in the future, but ok let's say u guys r both serious, welll then what i would suggest is that u go and get ur lil pillow and put it under ur toosh when he is done don't get up matter fact if u can just lay there for atlese 15 minutes, they say it works i just tryed it the other day, so we will see ...i aslo too have bin trying with my hubby, but we r trying for a sibling,.
well good luck and }}}}}}}}}}}}}baby dust to u}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}]
2006-09-15 10:05:37 · answer #5 · answered by >>..<< Wilmy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here's some advice - get a life and stop being such a sl^t. A child is not a fashion accessory. You have no right to deliberately bring one into the world just to amuse yourself. You can't even be bothered getting married and you think you are ready for motherhood. Hah! Grow up yourself first. And for God's sake, don't have a child that will almost certainly be abused by your de facto boyfriend.
2006-09-15 05:56:25 · answer #6 · answered by TC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To conceive you must have sex on a day that your eggs are being released.
After the 3rd day from the day that menses started put a thermometer into your mouth and check your body temperature every morning before you start turning in bed. The best time is at about 4 a.m. Maintain a chart. You will find that on one day the body temperature drops from 1/2 degree to one degree. This is the day that your eggs are being released. If you want to get pregnant this is the day that you must have sex. Tell your husband to ejaculate on his inward thrust so that the sperms will shoot deep inside.
After having sex you must stay in bed for about 30 mins with your knees bent up with a pillow under your buttocks so that the sperms will not pour out - to enable them to travel up.
Get your husband to save his sperms in the testacles for at least 3 days before sex to enable them to mature well to do their job.
2006-09-15 08:02:06 · answer #7 · answered by donp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me and my partner have been trying for 3 months now and we have had no luck. i no i can get pregnant because i have been pregnant before. i think u should stop trying and just have sex every couple of days. because they say that good things come to those who wait, and i have been told that some people who are trying to get pregnant never do for a while,but those who decide to just let it happen on its own do. me and my partner are just going to have a good time in the bedroom and not get our hopes up everytime we have sex.good luck. it will happen you just got to give it time.
2006-09-15 05:12:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey did you try the pregnancy calendar? it works 90% try having intercourse during the 5 days before and after your periods.
Thanks
Sam
2006-09-15 04:56:15 · answer #9 · answered by Sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could have an effect ....theirs a product out their to let you know when your ovulating .....have you tryed puttin a pillow under your rear and staying in the same position after hes done his drop off to see if that helps....
2006-09-15 04:57:55 · answer #10 · answered by JustCurious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep trying --- prectice make perfect. --- Oh and stop trying so hard and just enjoy yourselves. It will happen. Just have lots of fun doing it.
2006-09-15 05:03:35 · answer #11 · answered by daddyspanksalot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋