My dear, I must tell you that I've seen/known people who were attractive on the outside, but had a soul rotten as a fermenting corpse.
I have also had the pleasure of knowing people who were considered 'unattractive', who would give you the shirt of their backs, and a hot meal.
Attractiveness/ugliness isn't something you can define. It's a character trait. The height/weight thing is for insurance companies and Dr.'s, and are only suggestions. (I come from a long line of short, stocky people and I'm fine with that!)
The big thing is not to judge someone by their outward appearance. Also remember, that in time and in spite of plastic surgery and botox, all outward beauty fades, but a beautiful soul shines.
2006-09-14 21:35:04
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answered by thatwench 5
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First off, why ask for mature answers when you are asking a question that lacks maturity? I will answer it anyway. It is true that soemones physical appearance is what the initial attraction is most of the time. Something you have to keep in mind is that each person has a different idea of what they find attractive. Some may like curves and some meat on the bones. Some like extremely skinny with no curves. Some like big butts, some like small buts. The least attractive quality I can think of would be a crappy personality. Looks only get a person so far and they can change.
2006-09-15 04:51:46
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answered by Smart Ranger 2
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I would say that the most common answer you will see is going to be a person can be fat but the personality is "key" when you are looking at beauty.
I am gonna "keep it real" people(fat, skinny or whatever) are ugly if they don't practice good hygiene(brush their hair, teeth or bathe) If you are 300lbs and you dress like a slut or hoochie, then I for one think that is ugly, but then again it is gross on a skinny person also.
You can be fat or skinny it is all a matter of how you carry yourself and take care of yourself. But I also want to add that white gals can have junk also, I am one, and I have never been called fat or ugly because I have hips and a "big" ***.
If you're are 5ft tall and weigh 230lbs, then you are not ugly, just in trouble.....you won't live long!
2006-09-15 04:44:37
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answered by ? 5
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Well, I'm morbidly obese, not merely fat, and I am always startled when people say they think I am pretty. Obviously, they mean that in context: "for a fat person, you have a nice face." Of course, they don't say it that way, but it makes it terribly hard to know how to respond. It gets easier as you get older.
People use the term "fat" generally to refer to anyone they think could lose enough weight without being underweight that they should. In short, anything over ideal is called "fat" to some people. But "a little overweight" generally means they don't consider it important, they are noticing it. When people start calling you "a little over weight," you should already be working on improvements to the extent reasonable.
But note I say REASONABLE. Pushing panic buttons is counter-productive of trying to make long-term, effective overall improvements in your condition.
And remember, healthy is at the core of sexy. A man's hind brain knows that the way his ancestors did: healthy and strong enough to bear and feed and rear children. Even if he's not thinking about being a daddy any time soon in his fore brain, Mother Nature makes her ways known in his hind brain.
Certain gene pools, and I think both Pennsylvania German (mine) and certain tribal groups of blacks (yours, presumably, from your questions), have a decided tendency to put weight on in the butt if they once start to put it on. Men from those same cultures find this enticing as long as it goes on SLOWLY as a result of being busy and prosperous, and fertile.
Remember, the hind brain does things the way they have been done through history: Mother Nature's way. Only the fore brain really understands modern technology.
2006-09-15 10:41:56
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answered by auntb93again 7
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I don't believe being overweight makes a woman ugly. In fact, some women look horrible stick thin and beautiful with curves. And I can tell you, not all white women are stick figures. I'm quite curvy myself, and I think curves, both on black and white women... all women, really... are absolutely gorgeous.
I believe conceitedness and an ugly personality seriously, seriously make a woman not only ugly on the inside, but on the outside too.
2006-09-15 04:36:56
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answered by Anonymous
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I am white 5'2 125lbs & I dont think people consider me fat even though I didnt weigh that much when I gave birth to my 9lb son. But I notice I am getting flabby under my chin & my butt. So I need to tone up. I think you can be big & be sexy. It's personality & style. You can have a great body but if you cant dress yourself nice or you have a bad personality, sure guys will still do you because they are slime balls but no one will like you & you will be considered ugly.
2006-09-18 05:05:12
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answered by ? 2
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beside being over weight features such as bad teeth,big oversized butts,big nose,soggy breast's,hairy skin make a woman ugly its never like black girls are ugly look at Halle barry she's black but so beautiful
2006-09-15 04:40:12
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answered by vKd 1
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As I said before, there is no one set of features that everyone will appreciate aesthetically. You could be a size 2 and some would find it beautiful, others would find it repulsive. You could have pale skin and some may think it's beautiful, others may think it looks sickly. You cannot please everyone and there is absolutely no point trying to fit some imagined ideal, as it's a waste of time and energy and is not real life. HTH : )
2006-09-15 18:23:10
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answered by Anonymous
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The only thing that makes people ugly (men or women) is their attitude towards others.
I have seen girls that others would consider "drop dead georgous" but have a real ***** of an attitude towards others , to me , that sort of person is ugly.
2006-09-15 04:37:07
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answered by ? 5
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It's funny how someone as stupid and immature as you can claim to want "mature answers only." It's attitudes like yours that make people ugly.
2006-09-15 04:37:54
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answered by Anonymous
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