I really want to know if my bf is true to me,we have last now for 3 yrs.Before i really fully told my self that he really love me that he is faithful and devoted to me.But one day i found out that he got another girl and it was his ex gf mostly his first love!!I really got hurt so I broke up with him but he told me that he loves me more than any one else and to prove that it was true he is the one who broke up with his other girl friend and I also found out that it was true,now were together again but I always doubt that he will do it again.So guys please tell me how to know if my boyfriend had another girl?
2006-09-14 21:08:10 · 16 answers · asked by jerj 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Instinct tells you something is wrong.
2006-09-14 21:13:10 · answer #1 · answered by emator 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You the two could make particular that's what you % to do. You the two could be sure which you tell apart between love and intercourse. cheating is whilst one social gathering does issues with out having contract from the different social gathering first. despite if he has intercourse on my own with yet another female as long as you be responsive to in develop and agree it is not cheating. this could carry approximately jealousy and reason a concern between you and your boyfriend. in case you're the two advantageous you % to try this then your are remarkable to have policies and contain what is going to happen with the different female afterwards, Will she basically go away or what? Are you the two exhibitionists? How approximately doing this at a swingers club and the two getting a woman there then having the threesome the place others can watch it happen. Many couples use swingers golf equipment and a place to have exhibitionist intercourse instead of to incredibly swing. One substantial tip is whilst the policies are set agree who can do what with whom and don't exchange them at the same time as that's happening. additionally that's obtrusive yet use risk-free practices and make advantageous the two women are on the pill as you do no longer % any nasty surprises later. i'm hoping you're making a determination you're happy with later.
2016-11-07 09:06:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll never know til it's about time for the truth to come out, and that leaves you to make a decision later. Get what I mean? Even friends can hide it from you. The sad part is, the more you try to find out, the harder it seems and it will stress you a lot.
2006-09-14 21:11:11 · answer #3 · answered by Muffin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless you catch him or he leave reliable evidence around, you cannot know for sure. Personally I find it hard to believe someone who say they love me but cheat on me at the same time. He was cruel and inconsiderate to both you and his ex.
The point is that you are miserable with him. He has shown his character to be suspect and cannot be trusted. I would suggest you take time to yourself and dig deep inside. Concentrate on what you want out of life and what it would take for you to be happy. Set some goals for yourself and make them your priority. You cannot afford to let your happiness be run by someone you cannot fully trust. To thine own self be true.
2006-09-14 21:23:17 · answer #4 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. If he's got another gf then he'll be very cautious about hiding his relation and you'll have to hire a private detective to find out. Either you confront him with a marriage proposal (13 years is a long, long time) or you dump him altogether and find someone who truly loves you and wants to give you a happy and secure life.
2006-09-14 21:15:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Once a guy cheats he is always going to cheat. Pay attention to how he acts around you, his attitude and the way he treats you will change if he is cheating. The signs are easy to find you just have to open your eyes to see them.
2006-09-14 21:17:49 · answer #6 · answered by m&m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a cheater is always a cheater, dont believe him find another good guy for u to screw
2006-09-14 21:23:31 · answer #7 · answered by Shammi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
feel it in ur heart, give him the benefit of the doubt....if u see any telltale signs...get up and go...never look back
2006-09-14 21:24:10 · answer #8 · answered by ♦cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he will do it again,so watch ou if he tells u he has anor girl or u find out urself.
2006-09-14 21:17:52 · answer #9 · answered by Jane Fairfax 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont trust him move on.
if you doubt him then you have reason and should find someone else never settle!
2006-09-14 21:12:18 · answer #10 · answered by knowitall 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋