I'm having trouble in giving full trust right now. My boyfriend and I have a wonderful relationship, we are in long distance relationship and i know trust plays a vital role,if I won't handle this properly I know ours will be in trouble ...and i dont want it to happen,how am i gonna set my worries depart?
2006-09-14 20:50:25 · 9 answers · asked by maic 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
IF I UNDERSTAND THE QUESTION....YOU ARE SIMPLY TROUBLED/ WORRIED ABOUT YOUR LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP.
YOU HAVE A TRUST ISSUE. WHY?
DID HE CHEAT ON YOU? GIVE YOU CAUSE TO THINK HE MIGHT?
DAILY COMMUNICATION IS VITAL TO KEEP THE RELATIONSHIP ALIVE. AND OF COURSE YOU HAVE TO BELIEVE HIM WHEN HE SAYS THAT HE IS GOING OUT WITH THE GUYS AND THAT ALTHOUGH WOMEN ARE THERE- HE'S NOT GOING TO CHEAT.
IT IS HARD ENOUGH TO LOOK OVER HIS SHOULDER WHEN IT'S NOT LONG DISTANCE- NEXT TO IMPOSSIBLE WHEN IT IS.
RELAX. HAVE SOME WINE, WATCH A ROMANTIC MOVIE AND WRITE HIM A LONG LETTER POINTING OUT ALL HIS GOOD QUALITIES AND NONE OF THE BAD.
DON'T LISTEN TO GOSSIP AND RUMORS AND TRUST HIM COMPLETELY UNTIL HE GIVES YOU REASON NOT TO.
THEN WE ARE IN WHOLE NEW WORLD!
2006-09-14 21:00:34 · answer #1 · answered by singingbuggmann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, how long is the long distance relationship going to last? If only a short time, just trust that he will be true to you and you will be true to him. If it's going to be a long time, I would think the two of you should discuss seeing others while you are apart. Then when the situation changes and you can be together, you will know it's the right thing.
2006-09-15 03:54:08 · answer #2 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, and this was the key for me! Dont stress out about the things you cannot control! Can you stop him from damaging the relationship? No. If he does something to ruin it, you WILL find out. It always comes out eventually. But until you do have something to worry about.... enjoy what you have together and just relax, and let yourself love and trust him.
2006-09-15 03:56:49 · answer #3 · answered by FuzzyDice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
set a time when you and him can sit down infront of your computer and chat truly and in a relaxed atmosphere example, quiet or half-quiet room with some perfume in the air etc etc.
nowadays computer technology can use web cameras and microphones with the computer, so you can use it for communication.
the important thing is you and him can still click over the long distance else you know something is wrong and you have to find out what is wrong then.
mercury of love
2006-09-15 04:21:19 · answer #4 · answered by mercury of love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple, now v r in internet world. use all technolgies and less the comnucation gap. speak with him always whever its posible by any mode of communnicatin. covey the msg that u always think on him only
2006-09-15 04:05:29 · answer #5 · answered by arj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By wearing a chastity belt, both of you, and exchanging the keys.
2006-09-15 03:53:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me give you a good old fashion boneing. You will feel better afterwards.
2006-09-15 03:52:44 · answer #7 · answered by Jima 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably can't set your worries aside, but you can keep quiet about them. Keep them to yourself.
2006-09-15 03:52:35 · answer #8 · answered by Kylie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4get that
just start sleeping around and lie to him about it
dont make this harder than it needs to be
2006-09-15 03:54:04 · answer #9 · answered by niteshipper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋