I bet just about everyone said yes..i guess i would too if the marriage was in a rut..hehe..THEN WHY DO PPL GET MARRIED? Are all married men bored of their wives? I know of (about 8) married couples that had divorces because their spouse was cheating/cheated. And it was the male 95% of the time. Why do people still get married? Sounds pessimistic but its reality. I am 23 and have had more than 2 offers from married men at my work place..Well they didnt directly asked for sex but what else could a married man want if they ask another girl out? Any married men/women that would have a one night stand knowin' your partner would never find out?
2006-09-14 20:25:19 · 16 answers · asked by julia_lori 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Why would I cheat on my lesbian lover when we could bring someone into the bed and share her?
2006-09-14 20:27:45 · answer #1 · answered by fireincarnation 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Let me tell you a secret, I have cheated on my husband long ago and I thought I had everything figured out until the guy called my house and he answered the phone. Yes he was angry but we are still together after 18 years. To be honest with you at the time my husband was not doing the things that the other guy was doing and believe me it was fun but I had to be honest with myself about the whole thing all it was...was just about the sex!
Even though you may think you might not get caught eventually you will, all it takes is just one slip and that is it! Luck for me it didn't end my marriage at all if anything it made us more stronger far as our relationship. Ask me if I would do it again? Well the answer would be depending on the situation if we were having problems I would but if not then I wouldn't even try it anymore.
Chances are just what they are a chance and getting caught is not in the equation.
2006-09-14 20:32:54 · answer #2 · answered by beagirl40 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Absolutuly not!! I got married for a reason-to be committed to my partner. People who randomly cheat on their spouses are pathetic!! Seems like more and more people just "dont care" anymore. Mabie thats cuz they see everyone else doing it so it must be "ok". Think about it...there is a lot of things people do that are stupid. Two wrongs do not make a right.
2006-09-14 20:36:29 · answer #3 · answered by runner_chick 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I did cheat on my then husband lots of times and that is because there was no affection at home.
Now I've been with my current man for almost 9 years and I've never been tempted to cheat, not once.
I would never ever ever cheat on this man because I would not want to ruin it, even if there was no chance he would find out. I would know and I couldn't live with that.
And no matter what you think, women always know when their man has cheated. Men, on the other hand, are pretty clueless when it comes to their women cheating.
2006-09-14 20:28:54 · answer #4 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would never cheat because I don't think I could live with myself. Now, if I found out my boyfriend was cheating on me, I would make sure to have sex with his best friend and take pictures to leave him... then I'd pack up and go.
People still get married because they want to believe that true love still exists. I hope that it does, because if it doesn't, I've been wasting my time in relationships.
2006-09-14 20:28:43 · answer #5 · answered by trash1ey 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Even now i still get hit on by single and married guys, but i would NEVER cheat on my current love because i feel guilty easily, and the thought of cheating on a loved one, YUCKS, i would never forgive myself.
I believe in karma because i once cheated on an ex for another guy and this guy cheated on me for another girl. It hurts and i would never cheat again.
2006-09-14 23:15:08 · answer #6 · answered by NOTurBFF!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a woman. I would NEVER cheat on my husband because I love and respect him. I can only hope and trust that he feels the same. If not, then I guess we will just add to the already high statistics.
2006-09-14 20:27:58 · answer #7 · answered by munkees81 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have cheated on previous partners. When it happened to me I realised how much it devastated me. I have grown up a lot more now and will never cheat again
2006-09-14 20:37:32 · answer #8 · answered by sarah_99bc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF A MAN SPEAKS IN THE WOODS WHEN HE IS ALL ALONE, IS HE STILL WRONG?
"NEVER FIND OUT"?
YEAH RIGHT.
EVEN IF IN THEORY WE COULD ABSOLUTELY ASSURE THIS (REALITY IT IS IMPOSSIBLE) I STILL SAY NO.
I WILL FLIRT WITH OTHER WOMEN AT WORK, ETC. BUT ALL OF THEM KNOW I AM MARRIED AND MOST OF THEM KNOW MY WIFE.
RIGHT NOW MY WIFE IS ON THE OTHER SIDE OF THE U.S. VISITING FAMILY. SHE HAS BEN GONE 2.5 WKS, AND WILL NOT RETURN TILL THE 30TH.
OPPORTUNITY IS AVAILABLE TO ME. i COULD GO TO ANOTHER CITY WHILE SHE IS GONE AND FIND A PERFECT STRANGER AND SHE MIGHT NOT ACTUALLY FIND OUT.
BUT I WOULD KNOW. AND EVERY TIME MY WIFE AND I WERE INTIMATE- I WOULD REMEMBER. THE GUILT WOULD BE TOO MUCH. I LOVE HER TOO MUCH TO HURT HER.
NOT TO MENTION, THE PRACTICAL REASONS. I HAVE THE WORST LUCK- MY ONE NIGHT STAND WOULD HAVE A DISEASE OR BE A UNDERCOVER COP!
NO, ITS JUST NOT WORTH IT!
2006-09-14 20:35:31 · answer #9 · answered by singingbuggmann 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It will come back to haunt you.
I won't want the burden of carrying such a big dark secret for the rest of my married life.
2006-09-15 05:22:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
im still young but yeah...i guess they would cheat because men...well no offense dudes but sometimes they just dont have the uhh...what do you call...'spice'? i think. eh. people get married cos they believe they will last forever. but in reality, without trust there can be no love. they either dont trust or they just dont care. either way i would never cheat on the one i love
2006-09-14 20:30:47 · answer #11 · answered by § Moonlight Shadow § 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋