how can i tell my husband that he is becoming fat without hurting him .. he likes fatty things .... once i trued to mention that he eats to much lately and he got really angry as if he thinks i dont like him the way he is , but the thing is i love him and i worry for his health .... is there a way to reall HEALTHY homes like for the whole family ... am i allwaed to tell him what or what not to eat !?
we r less than teo years married :)
2006-09-14 20:12:43 · 2 answers · asked by delayla 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
do what i do, I do the grocery shopping, so what ever I buy he has to eat, LOL. I feel that you do have a right to speak up and say something. He is the person that you love and want to be with forever, try to tell him that way. maybe if feels that you are trying to support him instead of feeling like you don't like the way he looks. I'm a bigger girl and my boyfriend told me when I started my healthy life that he will always love me no matter how big I am, he just wants to love me for a long time. and that really hit home to me, support is the best way to go
2006-09-14 20:19:14 · answer #1 · answered by suelynn_99_99 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you can tell him. Marriage should be based on open and honest communication. You need to tell him in a nice way, that you are worried about his health. You'll love you no matter what he looks like but you'd like to love him for a lot longer and that won't happen if he keeps going the way he is.
2006-09-15 03:22:12 · answer #2 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋