2006-09-14 20:12:39 · 9 answers · asked by princess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't let the little things bug you.
Realize that marriage is a two way street.
Men are logically driven, women emotionally.
Give what you expect to be given and expect back what you give out.
Marriage is not a power play...it's a highway where you pass each other all the time.
It's easier to say I am wrong than it is to sit for hours arguing...
Do not enter your marriage with the confidence that if it does not work out, you can get a divorce. Instead, enter your marriage with the confidence that if it's not working out, you can surpass it together.
You are going to get a lot of tips to "submit" and to "serve" and be "subserviant" to him. These are all great tips...however, please don't forget yourself while you are doing this, and please remember that when God said to submit to the husband, he also said that the husband has to "cherrish" the wife, and in doing this for each other, it is not a hard task to do at all.
Marry under God, in God's plan, and with God's blessings.
Just some little tips I wrote down years ago. Thought they may help.
:) Renee
2006-09-14 20:20:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Communtication is the key to all relationships. that and trust. You have that you're a good wife. There's no how to's to being good wife. it's like asking someone how to live life properly?
If you have a good relationship with your husband now then you don't know want to disrupt it. I hope that helps you out... Rememeber, he married you because he loved you...he knew you would be a good wife to him.
2006-09-15 04:06:09 · answer #2 · answered by deais74 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good wives have the following qualities:
1. Respect for the husband's views and values, even if different from her's
2. Consults husband on any decision affecting them directly or indirectly
3. Supports the husband in whatever he does
4. Care and consideration for husband
5. Do things to please the husband.
Of course for a marriage to last long, the husband too has to have similar qualities! There must be two-way communication
2006-09-15 03:56:09 · answer #3 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he walks in the door home from work have a drink ready to hand him, set the newspaper on his seat and his slippers at his feet, dinner should be 1/2 hour away and do the dishes.
Of course you don't need to do all of the above if you are fantastic in bed!
2006-09-15 03:15:14 · answer #4 · answered by kid666_nz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can become a good wife by submitting yourself to God's spirit in your husband, and Pray, and continue to keep God in your heart and in your marriage. Also, may your submit his self to God and ask God how can he love you to the root of your soul because only God knows how your husband can love you to the root of your soul.
2006-09-15 03:20:24 · answer #5 · answered by jvbaker06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to Disagree with Paul... NEVER try to be his mother.. he already has one, and that is enough.
Otherwise... heed the advise of Dr. Laura... if he's not horny, make him a sandwich. You'll be amazed at the devotion these simple acts will buy you.
2006-09-15 03:46:13 · answer #6 · answered by Backstage Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be his best friend, his lover, his mother, and the devil's advocate.
2006-09-15 03:26:37 · answer #7 · answered by Red 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you're married, then you'll know.
2006-09-15 03:22:58 · answer #8 · answered by RunSueRun 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do whatever makes him happy.
2006-09-15 03:20:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋