My boyfriend has recently opened up to me and revealed the fact he would like to bring in someone else into our bed. Not another woman but a guy. He said that its not a gay thing for him but a visual fantasy that he has.I dont understand it and I am worried that he is gay.
To be honest, the two guy thing does appeal to a part of me, but I am afraid that this would be a coming out party......what do you think?
2006-09-14 20:11:16 · 18 answers · asked by arkymeany@sbcglobal.net 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Other - Entertainment
nasty T.M.G.D.I.!!! get rid of him
2006-09-14 20:19:19 · answer #1 · answered by bored at work 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, your boyfriend is gay. Visual fantasy? Riiight!
Your fantasy of two guys is with YOU at the center, but you'll be watching. Too much!
If you do, be careful and wise! Bi-curious means gay but not committed.
It IS a coming out party, but in the future you won't be included.
Sorry!
2006-09-14 20:37:14 · answer #2 · answered by Freesumpin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are always risks when engaging in a threesome. You may have an exciting experience with no consequences. The risk is that one or both of you may end up feeling something for the third person.
Also, you may end up finding an excitement that was otherwise lacking. Is some potentially weird, or maybe good time, worth risking your relationship over?
2006-09-14 20:18:36 · answer #3 · answered by Peter 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmm... My husband has suggested also bringing a third party into our bed.. but it must be a girl according to him. When i suggested another guy he said no way.. Look if your BF is bicurious support him if possible. My man wouldnt go there but if thats what your man wants then you should only paticipate if you feel comfortable in doing so!! If not dont do it!! Good luck and remember we are only human and we cant help who we are and what we like!!
2006-09-14 20:26:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would scare me too! If I had to have a threesome though, I'd definitely like another guy rather than a girl. Try talking to him without the weird tone us women get when we accuse people of stuff... you know, "be cool" or whatever. If you're trying to get him to come out then just act like you'd think it was hot if he was bi or something... then maybe he'll spill the beans. Haha. Reverse psychology.
2006-09-14 20:15:06 · answer #5 · answered by trash1ey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't say I know...it is every guys fantasy to entertain multiple ladies...but I can say this, any normal guy would not be turned on by watching his women with another man, so I agree with you. He is either gay, or bi, in my opinion.
2006-09-14 20:14:02 · answer #6 · answered by powhound 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that's it's high time you told this pervert bf of yours to take a flying f..k out of your door and never show his face again! A threesome?and with a guy? What'll he be doing next? invite the local basketball team for a gang bang with you? Really!!!
2006-09-14 20:16:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If all he wants is to watch you with another guy- that's probably not a gay thing. If he wants to join in- then you've got a problem.
2006-09-14 20:12:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's not gsy but he probably has fantasies about watching you with another guy.
2006-09-14 20:14:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A lot of couples seem to enjoy threesomes!
2006-09-14 20:14:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
personally, i aint in the group thing!
however whether its a man or woman joining you
it still has implications on both of u
man= him gay
woman= you lesbian
so its yo choice really
2006-09-14 20:17:26 · answer #11 · answered by what???? 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋