What would you do with your life if you only had 3 years left to live?

Question

Please be specific.

Answer 1

I know this is not the most comfortable topic to either discuss or to think about at all when it comes to our mortality,our lives here on this earth today. but really it is a very real part of life,and i don't know about you?..but ?, I would want to be prepared for my crossing over and after."


Getting Ready for Your Next Life"


it is understood by me that quite literally, you pick up in your next life where you left off in this one or in other beliefs you go to heaven or hell. frankly it doesn't matter, which way your beliefs go, there is usually always "a gotta pay for our actions in life" period.

I have been faced with the possible emotional, spiritual processes of loved ones dealing with illness,fears,anger,guilt ect...and have found simularities in the human psyche in the process of facing the issue straight on ,this is another story but?

I am and have been "in the caretaker position 2 times this past 7 months.."

many times shaking my head and feeling very sad or in shock at thier behaviors

no matter what your beliefs are? you can't hide from the enivitable, dying and what happens afterwards.

I would think that since "for all you know is" "that this is the last chance to show your loved ones you care, and to be able to make up for (if any possible way?) any hurt ,anger, resentments that your life and legacy might leave on"

but?, i don't know everything.. and have been scared for some if they did pass with thier meaness and lack of feelings or concern for thier loved ones they leave if not them? than for thier selves in the afterlife of ..many possibilities generaly.

I think this is what (I hope) I would be concerned with and try to act out to the best of my ability

so I would be leaving looking forward,and doing my best to help ease any possible Karma lag` hell fire what ever?~

I think that when it is apparent to you that this life is drawing to a close, you will be doing yourself a huge favor by getting ready for your next move/ life before this one ends.

I feel that you are already way ahead of most people because you know that death is just an end of one lifetime, and not the
"partys over" period.

and not the end of life itself.

Those who do not know or cannot accept the belief that or salvation or paradise reincarnation ..... ect..ect..!!"
only make things harder by hanging onto all the fears of death we have been taught to believe
into the "between- life state" or into Our next life.

So when it comes to " passing or crossing over", the biggest thing I think to remember is that
"it ain't over, until it's over".

what I'm saying is, use every moment in this life to clear up unfinished business.
"and all of us little angels do have unfinished buisness to work on here and now,I'm sure."
lol

Here is what you I would do to "get ready for my next life/move".

I would Strengthen and empower yourself

Just like you would to prepare for a big move, or a diet , or quitting a bad habit...
by reading up on it... before hand, get information..
this strengthens you and helps you to empower yourself to face death
by becoming more in tune with your own spirituality.
what ever it is

The more you understand the truth of your being- the nature of life as a force, the universe, karma, your spiritual development

I think the less you will fear death.

Understanding what crossing over or transisitonng from one life to the next involves has for me taken the fear out of the process.
then I would want to strengthen and empower others that we leave behind for now,

to me I think that death gives us a unigue chance to empower others.

I wouldn't wait for a will to
be read either....

I would start giving away my things to others who would benefit from them now.

I would be happy in the giving---
let our loved ones know that you can go more peacefully knowing that they will enjoy your thoughtful gifts,
tell them that "this is really what I do want you to have" with meaning, instead of

"ok.. ! "fight over it when i'm gone."

I think that this is horrible thing to do to your loved ones myself.

I would try to take the fear out of death for them too...
by telling them ...
that I will continue on as spirit
and my love for them will never die.

forgiveness/and clearing the air

When you are on your deathbed, making amends to those you have wronged
or offering forgiveness to those who have hurt or wronged you, are I feel the most
powerful actions that
you can do to
lighten the fear of whats next?
& to pretty much clear your karma .

I mean its great to apologize or forgive in silence no matter what, but I think that its moreso when you can communicate sincere forgiveness or amends from the bottom of your heart to loved ones

I believe it can "save" you and "the others involved" from "having "to pay for our sins..or come into another life, doing the same thing creating the same kind of pain between you, and then having to clean it up .

love is all thats important and appreciation is love
when you are on your deathbed,letting those who have encouraged, helped, and supported you, know that you love and do appreciate them and thier efforts..
releases powerful energies that help you pass over easier,and more pleasantly,and healing for our love ones here.

Just as with forgiveness and making amends..it is wonderful to express appreciation and love to yourself silently,but
it is much more empowering when you communicate your true
feelings from your heart to your loved ones and ending your
life with loving thoughts
of them and this life
helps you I believe to attract a more loving situation next time or where you believe you are to go.

So I would start to Imagine Your Next Life,or in heaven
how it will be,
like anything else in the
universe,
you you have a better chance
of getting what you want
when you ask for it!

Think ahead to what you
would like to experience
in your next life and "here- after" beliefs.

Visualize it and ask what you can do in this life to get there.

hey?..the answers you will get just might not be what you expect them to be and surprise you

go through and practices the final noment
Like you would do if you
were in a play, acting out the emotions,and preparing yourself
to be literally slapped by
the actor for the next scene,rehearse how you may
feel and react to pain of
the slap,the way you might be breathing
feeling thinking,
to make the the blow easier,
so you can move on to the next curtian..
like anything practice makes things ,situations, senarios easier and less fearful
I think if we feel prepared,practiced faced the unknown possibilities
of our reactions and actions
and use it to face the moment
of dying
we have faced and set the stage for our next life/move.

choose a way or a practice a script,
and use it when your'e going through the challenges of dying
so that you can do it easier
when facing death.

It makes alot of sense to me that while you are getting ready for your next life/move,
you can come to find peace with this one life.

you'll know,as well as your loved ones will ,
that we do wish you well,
we will love you always,on all of our journeys through life.

with confidence.
and love ~ ~

Answer 2

I wouldn't stress. I'd get up as much money as I could and enjoy myself and try to make sure if I had any kids that they were covered. Like buying bonds. I'd have plenty of sex and be a free spirit. What is the worst that could happen. What I'd die?

Answer 3

Just let myself always happy but not to forget to pray to God hoping for a miracle from Him, who knows God will give me another 3 or more years to live in this world.

Answer 4

since its not whats happening to me , how would i know, i think i would just live as i am, though id make a point of going to see my daughter and grand daughter before i got too sick

Answer 5

i would USE every minite ....
ill spend all my money on fancy things ,,,
i would spend it with the loved people ....
i'de write a diary to my doughter of how i wanted to love her and take care of her ...
i'de go places i allways wantd to visit ....
i'de go out with my husband evert night ...
ill sleap holding my baby every night ....
i'de go to church and wish that ill have more years ....
i'de appreciate what i have and ...

i just wish its just a question like nothing seriuos ....

Answer 6

I'd go skydiving, I'd go Rocky Mountain climbing, I'd go 3.7 seconds on a bull named "Foo Man Chu". I'd love deeper and I'd talk sweeter..............I'd give forgiveness i'd been denying.

Answer 7

I would do evrything i liked doing until i die

Answer 8

anything that i wanted too