me and my gf wants to have sex (safe sex, with condom), will this have any bad effects in the future if there is, what is it?
2006-09-14 19:28:54 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Nope, it will protect you from becoming a daddy right now. Unless you both are ready but I am guessing not since she want to be safe. God bless her for that you should also want to be safe. There are all types of condoms and other birth control out their so check into. But the only true safe sex is abstinence. But be sure that you are both ready and not doing this because it's the thing to do. Go to a planned parent hood or other clinic and read up on it.
2006-09-14 19:37:03 · answer #1 · answered by medevilqueen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOT OK
1- there are over 50 sexually transmitted diseases common among teens and preteens today. you can get them from any sexual contact. condoms don't protect (for example if the aids virus was the size of a pea the pore in the condom, in comparison, would be the size of a hole in a chain link fence). STDs most do not have symptoms
STDs most do not have cures
STDs some cause caner
STDs some can kill a baby at birth if the doctor dsnt kno u hv it
STDs condoms, even latex, do not protect you from
when you have sex with someone, biologically you are having sex with every person they ever had sex with, and will get any STD those people had. go head, have sex, be a walking disease factory -
2-studies have found that people that do not have sex before marriage have 80% fewer divorces!!! that is a big number.
3-if your gf is pressuring you, how much sex has she had before you?
4-respect your self and your gf and keep your bodies pure
5-do you want someone to have sex with your future wife today?? or would you want them to turn her down ? because your gf is someone's future wife
6-be a rebel stay pure for marriage
2006-09-15 03:58:11 · answer #2 · answered by Suzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think twice before you do. Are you ready to be a daddy? Are you gonna dump your gf if she gets pregnant? And are you ready to give up your childhood to raise a baby? Didn't think so. Just because you are gonna use a condom doesn't mean that sex is safe with it on. It can fall off or split. You can get AIDS or an STD. Sex doesn't mean love, and having it doesn't mean that you will love your gf even more. So wait until you 2 are older and get married, but you thought about using protection and that's really good. It's better safe than sorry.
2006-09-16 06:25:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never mentioned your age but if you are real young,you do not need to be thinking of sex at such a young age.There is so much more to life like getting your education.But it is good that you are talking about safe sex but you shouldn't rush things.The bad thing that could happen is that the condom could break if not put on properly and I think you know what the consequences could be.So it is best not to rush into anything like that.
2006-09-14 19:41:58 · answer #4 · answered by T.Mack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends. how long have you known each other. how long have you been dating? how old are you? do you TRULY love each other - as in, commited for a lifetime? is their a possibilty of you breaking up with her in less then a year? or are you guys ready to spend your entire life together - marriage, stability, sharing everything? ask yourself these questions before you go ahead and do anything. even 'safe' sex isn't so safe when it comes to the heart.
2006-09-14 19:37:31 · answer #5 · answered by Cherished_Bride 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how old ur g/f is, if she's under age then the bad effect is u going to jail, or the condom splitting and her getting pregnant, but usually there is no bad effects later in life, she's not a goat is she???????.....lol
2006-09-14 19:38:42 · answer #6 · answered by janine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it should not be any bad effects. also that it is not all 100 percent that the condoms or birth control well work. but it is lot safer then not have it
2006-09-14 21:23:54 · answer #7 · answered by jwtaz1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it s ok if you both want it once sex is in the relationship it may change things for both of you so make sure your both ready it can be a good thing but it can also be not so good it s up to you what dose your body and heart tell you
2006-09-14 20:56:46 · answer #8 · answered by silkvixen80 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No ! you are too young to have sex with your girlfriend because pre-marital sex is totally out in our asian culture. If you are not asian, then carry on as your wish. Let me tell you "once try always want " take care boy !
2006-09-14 23:18:52 · answer #9 · answered by James Louis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Because safe sex leads to unsafe sex and unsafe sex leads to babies! You must be young. If you have to ask this question, then your too young to be having sex.
2006-09-14 19:37:02 · answer #10 · answered by SEXiiNESS_2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋