A couple of days ago my friend and my friend's best friend offered to give my a ride home after my college course ended for the day. Since I do not own a car. They are also taking a college course. Anyhow, I accepted the offer because I did not want to take the bus home. However, when I met them after their class ended, my friend said hi to me and asked me if I would mind if they stop off at the drug store before taking me home. That is not the problem the problem is this is the only thing my friend said to me throughout the car ride with the exception of saying bye to me. In addition, my friend and her best friend were discussing about a party they were going to have on Saturday night in the car. They did not invite me however, they had the nerve to talk about the party in the car. Do I have a right to feel angry? What should I do?
2006-09-14 19:20:26 · 13 answers · asked by brooke992002 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You are feeling left out, yes, you have the right to feel that way. That is called righteous indignation.
Maybe she's not a friend.
2006-09-14 19:26:35 · answer #1 · answered by Mother of three 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off I wouldn't get too mad at them they don't really know what they are doing! Friends are a dime a dozen and obviously they don't know what friends really are. And as far as what to do about them here is a word of advice to you let them go and find a friend that is worth being called a friend, if they are willing to talk about a party in front of you and not invite you to it then they are not even your friends at all. Let the cows go!
2006-09-15 03:16:53 · answer #2 · answered by beagirl40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,there is a good reason for you to get hurt but what I personally suggest to you is that sometimes people ignore you on the spur of the moment.He/She ignored you because they had a party to discuss.
What i suggest is take a close look at ur friends attitude...if he/she repeats the same stuff when you are in a gathering/crowd,then its ok for you to get hurt and walk out of this friendship.By walking out I mean not stop talking to each other but being less involved with each other............All the best
2006-09-15 02:26:31 · answer #3 · answered by Sunny_Legendkiller 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You always have the right to feel whatever you like. This issue with your friend has obviously hurt you, its not easy to bring up the subject with your friend but might help you if you did.
Try to explain your feelings to your friend in a none angry way.
2006-09-15 02:25:56 · answer #4 · answered by awitchy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That doesn't sound u r being ignored. It happens. My be u r not much as close as they two are. So bear these things and concentrate on ur responsibility and behaviour but not on their as nothing is going to bring change in you by others behaviour towards u. Just be urself, do good and be good.
2006-09-15 02:30:38 · answer #5 · answered by Biss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you tried to talk to them or ask them if you can join them? No you do not if you did not paticipate . If they ignore your conversation ,that is another case but you have aright to express your feeling to your friend and tell her , how you feel left over the other day. Angry no.
2006-09-15 02:24:57 · answer #6 · answered by tangind 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might have been asking you to join without asking you to.......Maybe try inviting yourself. Though you may not want to. if it doesn't feel right this way of inviting your freindship may not be correct to your specs. If not don't do it. Find the right friends.
2006-09-15 02:28:38 · answer #7 · answered by nordinanoka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you feel left out. Poor baby. GET OVER IT. You are not the centre of the universe.
2006-09-15 02:29:31 · answer #8 · answered by flugelberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if my friend did that to me i would be angry. but it depends on how close your friendship is too. but i would still be angry at the fact that she talked about it in front of you and still didn't invite you.
2006-09-15 02:25:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it depends, if this is your "friend" then you should be mad, if its not then its not important, either way, just dont attatch to this person, like make plans without inviting them too, or something like that, but dont be petty about it though
2006-09-15 02:25:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋