He doesn't work and is always getting into trouble, yet still has such a ridiculous ego and he is entitled to whatever he wants. I often want to end the marriage but I am so drawn to him and cannot seem to have any consistent feelings about him. Some days I detest him and then without warning we are so happy I cannot imagine us ever fighting, then in just a few more minutes, we detest each other again. Is there any hope for a middle ground to save our marriage. We have 4 wonderful kids whose happiness and stability is on the line. Any suggestions from the stars?I am the sole support of this 6 person family and will not let him take credit as my equal in the house, but he dominates in the bedroom. Any tricks to get him to change his attitude and actually EARN what he thinks he deserves?
2006-09-14 18:56:18 · 9 answers · asked by kat c 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
Your marriage needs help on a level more than you will find here. Instead of waiting for him to get a job, I would find a good marriage counselor and try that and then you may have to also decide if he is worth staying married to. Kids need stability and happy parents who can work as a team to provide. My daughter is a Leo and works 3 jobs and my boyfriend is a Leo and a banker. Usually they are very generous and excellent providers so my guess is that your husband's not working is about more than his zodiac sign. Also never use sex as a weapon with a Leo. Its much better to keep the king of the beasts purring and content.
Leo
July 23 - August 22
Leo is the fifth Sign of the Zodiac. These folks are impossible to miss, since they love being center stage. Making an impression is Job One for Leos, and when you consider their personal magnetism, you see the job is quite easy. Leos are an ambitious lot, and their strength of purpose allows them to accomplish a great deal. The fact that these folks are also creative makes their endeavors fun for them and everyone else. It's quite common to see a Leo on stage or in Hollywood, since these folks never shy away from the limelight. They are also supremely talented and have a flair for the dramatic. Warmth and enthusiasm seems to seep from every Leo pore, making these folks a pleasure to be around. They do love pleasure!
Leo Money Profile
The star of the Zodiac has arrived! Leos love to be center stage, playing to an adoring audience. They also love beauty and riches and often seem to be pampered with both. When not on stage, it's easy to spot the Lion in a crowd. They're always the most magnetic presence in the room, surrounded in an almost golden glow. Leos are usually on a mission to find their right place in the (business) world. If they're chosen to lead -- well, some things just make perfect sense!
Leos enjoy taking a risk, but generally only if the odds are in their favor. They hate to lose (and look bad!). It's not surprising for Las Vegas to beckon to the Lion who loves glamour and glitz along with some shiny new coins. The Lion's gambling streak can be a good thing, as long as ego doesn't get in the way and lead to bad business decisions.
Lions firmly believe that money is there to give them everything they deserve, whether it be a great house, a zippy sports car, or more toys than they can play with. Extravagance is their middle name! They'll find a way to make money, because they surely know how to spend it -- and will. "There's more where that came from" is never far from the Lion's mind.
Managing money would definitely crimp the Lion's freewheeling style -- hey, these are the folks who originated the champagne and caviar party! The accountant (or partner) can add up the damage. If Leos do overspend, they're generally resourceful enough to get back on track. When things get really bad, a visit will be paid to the banker since the proud Lion could never borrow from a friend. And admit they're not king of the hill? Never!
The Lion's secret to success, however, may be a very generous spirit. These folks would lend their last penny, and since what goes around comes around, they'll always find their way to a few more. Leo knows the cup is half full, and more often than not, their cup runneth over!
2006-09-16 00:02:02 · answer #1 · answered by seattlesunlover1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,
because a LEO is lazy yet likes to be incontrol, you can't keep ordering him to work or to do something but you can use urself as a woman.
a LEO is so sensitive to a woman he's basically weak to his woman and if he found the right girl that keeps pushing him to be the best he will be the best in no time.
the problem is you two are from the fire group becoz aries and leo are fire, so you both could get angry the same time and none would stop the fighting.
to stop fighting, try to listen to him more. I know what he says is basically rubbish, and this is bcoz when a leo gets mad and angry he says the things that makes the other part go nuts. remember he dosn't mean it, it's just his nature. try to listen to him and ignore what he says if you won't ur marriage to be saved.
i know it's hard for you to be patient when someone is shouting, and not being in the right position... but, jsut try.....
finally...
to pleas him, give a hot full of passion night. a leo loves a hungry wife.... when u do that, he'll be a ring around your finger :)
wish you luck :)
2006-09-15 05:09:53 · answer #2 · answered by ! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationship or marriage is about Give and take... You both should talk about it..if u love ur family especially having kids is a bigger issue...u wont want to let ur kids suffer in the future... if talking to him doesnt work..then try arrange a meeting with someone professional and both of u shud try to go for a councelling. Fighting all the times is not a healthy in a relationship. If only it's once in a while then it's common..but like u said...u argued all the times..there's some kind of miscommunication here... Remember u have kids... Tell u that u love him so much u dont wanna lose him just because of his behaviors/attitudes... tell him u love ur family and tell him u want him to work it out wt you so that u both have a better life and a healthier family..... Pray to god, may HE open ur husband's heart and may god bless ur family wt happiness and great success..amen... all the best to you..
2006-09-15 02:09:47 · answer #3 · answered by msleprikon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ARIES AND LEO
Both have got egos to burn and both like to lead. Aggressive Aries wouldn't dream of taking second place, and kingly Leo needs constant admiration. Usually they can work it out by having Leo play the emperor and Aries play the general. The trick is for neither to take the other all that seriously. It's a fine combustible sexual match, for both are fiery and romantic. Aries is optimistic and open to fife; Leo is generous and good-hearted. If neither tries to deflate the other and if they can find room to compromise about who dominates whom this should be a happy mating.
I think this may ring a bell or two it seems to be an ego issue !
Love & Blessings
Milly
2006-09-15 09:25:26 · answer #4 · answered by milly_1963 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop looking at the stars... that's what the Pharisee's did during the days of Jesus. That as you know was a long, long time ago and they didn't get it right either. Start looking toward each other for starters. Next, it is not biblical for the man of the house not to provide for his family, that is a sin. It is not my place to tell you what to do, but if I may make a suggestion... seek God! And if your so called husband doesn't want to go along for the ride, then the writing is pretty much on the wall and not in the sky. Best of luck to you and yours.
2006-09-15 02:09:37 · answer #5 · answered by cptdrinian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bummer
2006-09-15 01:59:03 · answer #6 · answered by 4 strings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answers you need to hear aren't going to be here.
Your question is as confused as your declarative sentence followed by a question mark.
Get help, lady! Rocks circling in orbits don't govern human behavior. Sheesh.
2006-09-15 01:58:31 · answer #7 · answered by Kurious_Kevin 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
give time &place birth(s) too.
to suggest any poojas if need be.
2006-09-15 04:33:13 · answer #8 · answered by veerabhadrasarma m 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gr8.......
2006-09-16 09:33:23 · answer #9 · answered by blackcat_bob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋