abusment changes you?

Question

do you think that it would change the person that you actually are to a more violent one?me and soe of my friends have,but we're still alive...

Answer 1

I don't see how it couldn't keep from changing somebody.

Answer 2

Abuse can have a variety of changes on a person. It can make them very angry and very violent, & it can make them very passive and shy. There R alot of varying factors here, and no way to pinpoint exactly what the outcome of any type of abuse is going to affect someone. Large amounts of counseling helps, and God is the only real answer for peace in ones life. people who have been abused have a much greater chance of becoming an abuser than people who have not been abused. It is up to the person who has been abused to break the cycle, and that usually entails help of some kind somewhere a long the way of life. Part of breaking the cycle is being able to admit you have been abused and need help in dealing with how that enters every part of your life. then you must be willing to change the parts of your life that need changed. You must be willing to heal mentally, physically, emotionally. it is not an easy thing to do, but it is possible.

Answer 3

You are playing a stupid, childish game, suggesting that you and "soe" of my friends have been "abusement." If you were my child I would smack you up side the head for not knowing how to spell and for jerking around adults on YA. And I am CPS (ret).

Answer 4

A great book for this subject is Cracked by Dr. Drew Pinsky.
I think that generally violence is a trait that comes out in abused males, mostly physical abuse. Generally in women, abuse can lead to hyper sexuality, with periods of sexual deprivation. People who were abused, often by someone who is supposed to be a caretaker and the one person they can trust, will have trouble formulating what many would label as "adult" relationships, and instead of leaving oneself open to abuse and vulnerable, will look to other acts to avoid having strong emotions. These actions often come out in sexual relationships, or physical ones. Also, abuse can enforce and trigger some addictive genes, which can also be very serious. There are a lot of serious problems with abuse, and abuse definitely affects a person for the rest of their lives. There are lots of resources out there in good books you can read to learn more about abuse, and the efforts, and I highly suggest checking them out.

Answer 5

Abuse can sometimes make a person violent but it is not in fact definate that an abused person becomes that. It varies from person to person and it depends a lot on your personality style and if you have an addictive personality. The more addictive your personality is the more prone you are to violence after abuse as well as if you have a weak personality.

Answer 6

not sure what you mean by alive. but...yes abused women,men or children can become abusers themselves and be aggressive or violent. they are acting out what was done to them same with sexual abuse they are prone to sexually abuse someone else. first and foremost i suggest counseling as soon as possible. i assume you want to change this behavior so go seek the help it will be good for you to get your angry and hurtful feelings out in the open. it will be a big weight lifted off of you. my prayers are with you. good luck.

Answer 7

Abuse can change you many ways. You can be more violent or more docile. Generally you have less confidence. Unfortunately, Abuse probably shapes more lives than any positive actions.

Answer 8

Yes, you become a spineless, whining, scardy mouse. You become a sub-human, having no self value or respect at all. You become a slave.

Answer 9

What exactly are you asking? Details pls

Answer 10

yes it does