I just got a message from someone who said they looked at my 360 and they said how ugly I am. Why do people have to be like that. I know I'm not all that, but I'm still a good person. I just don't understand some people out there.
2006-09-14 17:46:10 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Sociology
I should have put this but I saw their q&a cause they didn't actually email it. They put it under a question I asked so I deleted it. All their questions were nasty and rude things like how people wipe their behinds and nasty junk like that.
2006-09-14 17:58:57 · update #1
I am sorry that you got such a message. But... if we think about it... we should be sorry for the one sending it. Not because he thinks what he thinks, but because of being the way he is and not having a better thing to do than sending it. That person has a problem.
You seem to be a very nice person. Just ignore those who only want to hurt.
*hugs*
2006-09-15 04:46:33 · answer #1 · answered by kamelåså 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most of us have mean and insulting thoughts like that, but we have the decency and humility not to voice or act upon them. Of course, the internet provides anonymity which protects people from real consequences in cyberspace and makes some people drop their masks and reveal their ugly faces. Then, you have people who really are frustrated with their own lives and project their anger onto the world instead dealing with their own issues. Lots of different reasons for people to be mean. But not everyone is. That's what sets nice people apart from jerks.
2006-09-15 00:58:16 · answer #2 · answered by Subconsciousless 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a physiological thing. People that are insecure and don't think much of themselves, will try to make others feel the same, "misery love company", if you spend all your time trying to understand all the nimrods out there you will have a miserable life. As long as your happy with yourself, then it really doesn't matter what others say.
2006-09-15 14:48:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I often wonder this myself why people act with such hateful behavior. Most of the time u will find it is a ego thing. Dont worry to much about this after all u know who u are not , besides this person is probably cleaning toilets at Mc donnalds full time and living their mommy ...
2006-09-15 01:01:12 · answer #4 · answered by aaron 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, people who are mean are usually so frustrated by how unimportant or ugly they feel inside that their only way of making themselves feel better is to put someone else down. It is kind of ironic because that was one of the main reasons I put the picture of Lurch as my picture. The only think in common I have with his is height...Lurch as my name all through high school. People judge a book by their cover and they think if I choose to use Lurch's picture that I must be unattractive or ignorant..I let them see what they want to see. Best of luck.
2006-09-15 00:52:58 · answer #5 · answered by Mav 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can only give what you have. If you were only fed hatred, that is what you will dish out. You can only feel sorry for your offenders. You put up with them the little while their insult hurt you, but they have to be with themselves the rest of their lives... Isn't that worse?
Smile then. Pick up your feet. Dance. You are loved by all the people that answered your question so kindly, including me!
And God loves you. NO DOUBT ABOUT IT!
2006-09-15 01:39:53 · answer #6 · answered by tfjea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry U had an ****** like that email you. The truth is, people like that are so hollow inside.... so devoid of any self respect, confidence and compassion. Just take solace in the fact that you are not them, and that you are a good person with a good heart!
2006-09-15 00:55:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who knows? What's even worse mean people seem to lead better lives?! Unfair? Heck yeah!
Ok now that I've vent my anger *deep breaths* truth is mean people exists everywhere. Though like the song go, one bad apple does not spoil the whole bunch.
Leave this bad experience behind, hold your head high & move forward. Ignore them.
2006-09-15 01:21:31 · answer #8 · answered by ViRg() 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who knows why people take pleasure in trying to hurt others? I've never completely understood it, and I've been on the receiving end of some random, hurtful stuff. I guess you have to look at it as a character flaw with them. It's about who they are, how they were raised, and how they deal with the world around them, and really nothing to do with you.
I'm sorry that happened to you.
2006-09-15 00:49:57 · answer #9 · answered by milomax 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people are just plain rude, I don't know what makes a person nice or mean, but it'd be a much better world if everyone could get along.
2006-09-15 00:49:52 · answer #10 · answered by blclionel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋