I don't want to hear anyone say that most women are catty in general because I know that is no where near true. I'm not sure what it is about white women, but I've come to find that they don't really handle emotional situations very well. I'm really not trying to be racist here, but this is something that just annoys the heck out of me. I don't know, maybe I've had to many bad experiences with white women.
2006-09-14 17:38:24 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
Aprille just proved my point.
2006-09-14 17:50:36 · update #1
Gentleman, I just have to once again thank God for someone who sees the other side of the board. For soooo long, folks jumped down black women's throats as to why we are such and such. I have always been a calm, nice person. The white women I have met , were catty, and one of them was Extremely snobby. Where the black woman is seen as "tough", the white woman has her fault too: being catty and snobby. Some white women were born in the land of "have" and blacks were born in the "have nots", so us black women, unfortunately had to be more vocal. White women choose to do mostly schoolgirlish things(talk behind backs, sneaky), which is not bad or anything, just their MO, I guess.
2006-09-15 06:00:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Oh you sound a bit annoying to me right about now. You are mad and you just had too many bad experiences. Cause it is not "white" women. You need to get off the whole "skin color" issue you have cause that's not even true. Maybe you should pay more attention to women's feeling when you are with them in a relationship or friend's with them. You are letting the few white women who you had bad experiences with cloud your judgment.
2006-09-14 17:47:12 · answer #2 · answered by larrys_babygurl_4life 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow, gentelman, I thought I was the only one asking the race questions here? Are you getting hate mail too? Oh, I don't know any catty white women. I know catty black women! But of course that doesn't mean there aren't any catty white women. I just have yet to meet one.
2006-09-14 17:58:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Naa. .its not just white women. There are catty women of EVERY race. .trust me, I have women friends of all colors and they all get catty sometimes.
Ya gotta understand some women let their emotions take over. Its hard to control your emotions sometimes because they're so strong. Sometimes its hormones. Sometimes its because of stress. Or some women are just needy. Just be patient and help the woman you're involved with handle her emotions and be there for her when she gets all emotional. Just have patience and it'll pay off.
2006-09-14 19:58:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think it is wrong to stereotype anybody. I am a Black woman and I get damn sick and tired of people trying to hang stereotypical baloney on me. It is not okay to generalize or stereotype anybody. Perhaps you personally have had bad experiences with a few women...that does not give you the right to condemn millions of women or label them as "annoyingly catty" based on their skin color.
2006-09-14 17:59:20 · answer #5 · answered by ValleyViolet 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Gentlemen, I think I have to agree with you. Now that you mention, I can remember that I have had to deal with a lot of catty white women and it is annoying.
2006-09-14 18:12:00 · answer #6 · answered by posture 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am Catty because I am a cat, I am a calico cat, I have no emotions othe the for a Tom I have been with for 21 yrs. he adores me as I do him & our boys.You shouldn't judge only the man up stairs can.
2006-09-14 17:48:38 · answer #7 · answered by Z-Cat 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
For somebody that's not raciest you sure do ask allot of racial questions. I know you don't want to hear it but all women are emotional. Maybe your just attracted to a certain kind of women? What are you doing to pist them off anyway. You think you would figure it out after a while? Maybe its not them? Maybe its you?
2006-09-14 17:49:48 · answer #8 · answered by noname 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you considered additional factors outside of race? Class? Level of education? Cultural background?
I'm not discounting race as a factor, I think that there will always be people who fuel the stereotypes of their race, but In the majority of cases, there is usually more than one motivator.
Sorry you've had such bad luck in that area. I hope that changes.
2006-09-14 17:47:43 · answer #9 · answered by cmhenshaw7 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're just mad. But if you like women of color better that's okay. There is no reason you can't be with another race. It just doesn't matter. Look to the heart not the race.
2006-09-14 17:43:29 · answer #10 · answered by sunny 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋