In the last 3 months, I seem to have lost all my so called closest friends and dont know why they are not talking to me.
What should I do?
2006-09-14 17:17:36 · 16 answers · asked by Kym 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I have tried talking to them, but they are really short with me. They dont return phone calls or text messages.
2006-09-14 17:26:57 · update #1
I would try to find out in a peaceful manner, why they don't want to talk to you. If they refuse to answer you or act like jerks to you, then I would move on with your life and find new friends who will care about you. You are a good person who doesn't deserve this type of rejection and abuse from anyone. You are better than that.
Sometimes so- called friends listen to rumors and believe them, others cna just be cruel on purpose. It seems like so-called friends expect you to fit in the "IN- Crowd", and if you don't dress a certain way or do what they want you to do, they'll stop
talikng to you. also so-called friends like to use people.
I know from my own life experiences with friends like that.
If those people won't talk to you no matter what, then they were never real friends at all. If you want a real friend I am here for you.
My e-mail address is midnightwolf99_2000@yahoo.com
2006-09-14 17:31:12 · answer #1 · answered by midnightwolf99_2000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Send them an e-mail once in a while to say what's up, but don't get all crazy and start saying "Why aren't you talkin to me" and stuff.
Also, try making some new chat buddies on the internet. Open a Yahoo 360 page and start blogging. You'll make some virtual friends quite fast.
2006-09-14 17:19:21 · answer #2 · answered by jimjones3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Embrace the fact that life is changing; you are changing! You probably haven't really "lost" your closest friends, but they need to find out who they are too.
Go out and have fun. Find some other friends--venture out and see what you find. Don't be afraid of new situations!
2006-09-14 17:19:12 · answer #3 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they dont even take the time to communicate with you, they arent worth the time that you were hoping to have with them. Put that time to better use and make new, more considerate friends. Good Luck
2006-09-14 17:20:58 · answer #4 · answered by Dude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you leaving out something here? because the way i see it is if your acting the same way you've always been acting since you first met your friends then i don't see why they would just stop talking to you. and if this is how you feel.....then why don't you ask one of them whats really going on?
2006-09-14 17:21:56 · answer #5 · answered by Mixed Chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same thing happened to me a few years ago. People grow up and grow apart for many different reasons.
2006-09-14 17:18:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAVe a little talk with at least one of them. MAy be you have changed. OR maybe they have moved on in life.
2006-09-14 17:19:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry. were u talking to me? lol. seriously just try asking them. if they don't want to answer and try to work it out then they weren't true friends to begin with. try going and finding other people to hang out with. everyone grows out of certain friendships sometimes. sorry it happens.
2006-09-14 17:25:00 · answer #8 · answered by a very happily married woman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are trying to show you that they don't wanna be friends with you so you should look for REAL friends... move on. You're special and they don't have the right to treat you like you're not.
2006-09-14 18:33:26 · answer #9 · answered by hott lips 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if they are your true friends and if they are mad at you for some reason they will tell you in there own time if they don't talk to you then maybe they are not really your true friends
2006-09-14 17:20:36 · answer #10 · answered by computer_girl27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋