why in hell i have become so freaking shy, my face gets red, at all time, does anyone has the same problem.?

Question

thanks everyone for your answers.

the other day i was with my friend when a guy approach us. my friend told me you should see your face, it was red. I didn't feel uncomfortable talking to him. What is happening to me?

Answer 1

i had same problem when i was younger.. i got sweaty, red, uncomfortable!! sigh... but i grew out of it (it took a LOT of time, and work on my part). here is what i wrote to someone else w/ similar question:


the more u work on urself, the better u will feel. *trust me*.

so having said that, work on:

1) your appearance: work out. exercise. take care of ur body. take care of ur skin. get new haircut. try on new clothes. buy Flattering, stylish clothes, make u feel good and look good.

2) your mind: study. read more. learn more about current events. find a hobby, and excel at it. the more u KNOW, the easier it will be for you to develop your own ways of thinking, as well as be able to TALK w/ others about it.

3) your relationships: as u build ur confidence in urself, and keep in mind to be Open Minded, Non Judgemental to others..... u will be able to speak out more, talk to ur friends, family members, practice talking about anything and everything u are learning, or find out what they are interested in. the more u practice, the easier it will be for u to do that with Strangers, or friends of friends, and not feel as shy...because remember, 1 & 2, u are already working on ur appearance and your brain, so u don't have as much to be "scared" about.

:) good luck...the more Positive attitude u have (remember, u can Always change something if u make a mistake, u can learn from it, u can always grow, and do something different tomorrow), the more opportunity u will have in ur life. confidence will lead to easier job interviews, class discussions, making friends, getting to know teachers, etc etc.... huge impact on ur life. but getting over ur shyness is the first step, and working on ur confidence will help u become less shy.

Answer 2

Yes, all the time. It's so annoying. And it just makes it worse when people are like "Oh my God! You're all red!"

Does your chest get all red and blotchy too? That always happens to me if I'm nervous, embarrassed, mad, or stressed out and I hate it!

It took me a month before I stopped being all nervous and shy around my boyfriend. I just liked him so much that every time he would talk to me or compliment me my face would get all red!

They say that when you start to get nervous or embarrassed, you should try to remain calm, and hold something cold, like a drink, cause the coldness of the drink will cool you off. But I don't know who "they" are or even if that stuff is true.

Answer 3

Hey, Yes i have the exact same problem, 2 years ago i was never shy but now even when im talking to friends i get really quite and red. I also find it hard to talk to alot of people. DONT WORRY your not alone.

Answer 4

your lucky my face stays RED I am always blushing as some say, I am very quiet too possibly SHY. Ok I am shy but I don't know how to overcome it. I have tried several times but it seems I just get worse.

Answer 5

I was born painfully shy but eventually very slowly outgrew it. I think alot of people have a brief shy period in adolescence because basically your brain matures really fast and you become alot more aware of things you never noticed before, and it makes you a little self concious.

Answer 6

I had the same problem when I was younger. It's ok. You're not alone. I still have this problem at times around women. Especially ones I find attractive.

Answer 7

i blushed only once in my entire life... but i don't think there's a solution to that problem...