I am interested in bringing toys into the bedroom, but not sure how my boyfriend will react?? And whats the best sort/s to get?? Went into the adult shop and there are sooo many different things!!! Any tried and tested?
2006-09-14 17:11:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Bring up the issue in a non-sex related conversation. You might start with I've got an idea, I wanna know what you think...." and see where it leads. In the right time and situation he will be apt to accept the idea. In a sexual situation, he may take it as a threat, or just something said in the heat of the moment.
Tell him what you like, wanna try, saw and were curious about. You wanna know what he thinks too, but he needs to know you are serious. explore and have fun, as always...be safe.
2006-09-14 17:21:09 · answer #1 · answered by L C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A little advice first, talk about it with him...don't just pull out a big toy and say "Guess what i've got." Talk it over and discuss what you are both into and are willing to try. You should both go to the joy shop and check things out. Also, ask some of the people who work there, they are not all idiots. Best of luck & HAVE FUN!!!!!
2006-09-14 17:16:12 · answer #2 · answered by Mav 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend and I did this not too long ago. The approach I took worked great. Before I brought anything into the bedroom i decided that I would ask him how he felt about it and if he was opent to it. He was a little slow but in the end it worked out great and we went shopping for our first toys together. And let me tell you. Its all good now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-14 17:25:41 · answer #3 · answered by smilestoomuch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will go for it.The wife loves bullet vibes.But you need to buy what you think you will like. You may try several you don't like.There are Toy parties that a saleswoman will come to your home let you touch and feel them and explain them to let you make an informed decision.
2006-09-14 17:16:51 · answer #4 · answered by carolinatinpan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TOYS ARE THE BEST~~!! every girl needs her dildo..lol your boyfriend should be open to it isnt thats what the bedroom is about exploring..
2006-09-14 17:34:37 · answer #5 · answered by chas 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not here,,,,I like the real thing and don't need any toys to help out.
2006-09-14 17:14:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on who is using the toys and who they're being used on.
2006-09-14 17:12:20 · answer #7 · answered by Maxwell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He'll probably be delighted that you want to be so frisky. Just be sure and not get anything that is bigger than he is!
Be absolutely certain that his lovemaking is completely satisfying to you, otherwise you will do serious harm to his ego!
2006-09-14 17:15:05 · answer #8 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just bring tem in, he'll like em, get some lube too...get the kit with 5-6 things in it..
2006-09-14 17:13:38 · answer #9 · answered by snoogans 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you both truely loved each other you dont need them,
you got alot in common with my dog tho, he thinks alot about humping stuff,, and he gots lots of rubber toys
2006-09-14 17:16:47 · answer #10 · answered by aware 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋