I have to two kids by by two different guys, okay I was out with my ex husband and his mother for her birthday with our son and my youngest sons father called me, we use to talk everyday because we were trying to work things out. He does his own thing and I never get mad because we aren't together anyway, but he got mad at me because I was out with my ex-husband and hasn't called me since then. Is that not stupid or what? I don't want my ex-husband he has somebody that he loves and I'm happy for me but if he wants to buy me lunch and take of his son I'm going to let him, so anyways I said oh well if he doesn't call me we won't ever talk and I'll just consider it as Parental Abandonment. I love him but I love myself more and I'm not begging no dude for nothing. So what would you do if you were in my shoes call him or not?
2006-09-14 17:01:49 · 13 answers · asked by Mrs. Butler ♥2 B♥ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
DO NOT CALL HIS *** GIRL!!! WHY CAN HE GO OUT WITH OTHER WOMEN AND YOU CAN'T GO OUT WITH OTHER MEN? IT DOESN'T WORK THAT WAY BOO!!! THEN THERE WAS NOTHING SEXUAL GOING ON WITH YOU AND YOUR EX EITHER!!! DO NOT CALL HIS ***!!! WHY DO MEN WANT THEIR CAKE AND EAT IT TOO? DON'T THEY JUST GET ON YOUR NERVES WITH THAT ****!!!!
2006-09-14 17:07:38 · answer #1 · answered by markcollinsbeywoman 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yeah that is stupid that he's getting mad for you doing you're own thing, he should be a little more understanding about this, and I'm assuming that's prob'ly why you spilt from him in the first place, an ex is just that for a reason an ex.
let him figure it out for a day or two, If he really wants to work things out between you two and get the good juices flowin back into your relationship he'll call, if he doesn't call well you can prob'ly just chalk it up to him bein' a whiny punk.
If he's gettin mad about you doin your own thing when he's out of the picture, I suggest just cuttin the relationship ties and be done with it.
2006-09-14 17:14:02 · answer #2 · answered by quiksilver8676 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When me and my husband started dating we broke up more than once because my ex husband would call or he would stop by on his way home from work to see the kids or on Halloween he would tag along to watch the kids. There was no feelings between us we were friends. Finally I told him flat out that I loved him but my ex was going to be in my life to a point because we did share three kids and if we wanted to be together we wouldn't have gotten a divorce in the first place. Call him and talk to him and tell him how you feel then tell him either he trust you or he doesn't and if he doesn't you see no future together
2006-09-14 17:20:48 · answer #3 · answered by Martha S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's sometimes difficult to act like a mature adult, but try.
Your ex is jealous of your other ex. Wow, amazing huh? How much would it take to call him and make him feel better by reminding him that you and your other ex are just friends? This is the father of your CHILD! Does it hurt your precious ego so much to call him and be friends again for your child's sake? You say you love him but you won't call him and make him feel a little less insecure? Who the hell asked you to go 'begging no dude for nothing'? You don't have to beg, you just have to act your age.
2006-09-14 17:09:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy and I say don't call him. If he cares about you,then he will get over it. And when he does call you, don't say anything about the situation until he does, because when he calls you, he probably realized how childish he was acting and is too embarrased about the situation.
But then again, he could let his jealousy continue to make him act stupid, then you will have to pull out the big guns, have your younger son call him and tell him to come over, hehehehe
2006-09-14 17:13:22 · answer #5 · answered by cdubsj2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Daddy no. 2 is going to have to understand that Daddy no. 1 is always going to be part of your life and that is the way your family is made up. I would call him up and talk about it and explain that as your first childs father he has rights too. If he cares about his own child he will come around.
2006-09-14 17:08:11 · answer #6 · answered by obenypopstar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not getting child support then I would take the necessary action because a child is entitled to that. Other than that why are you two playing head games with each other? You shouldn't even be worried about who's calling who. Hell with him!Lose contact with him delete his number. You need to concentrate on your child before anything else. Grow-up!
2006-09-14 17:19:16 · answer #7 · answered by Vicki A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't call him. He's overreacting. Maybe you explained yourself, maybe you didn't. Which ever way, you shouldn't have to call him.
When he calls just feel out the conversation to somehow reaffirming that there is nothing between you and your ex-husband.
Have a good day!
2006-09-14 17:38:13 · answer #8 · answered by pacific_crush 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Farien. Grow up and call him and explain to him exactly what the deal is.
2006-09-14 17:13:58 · answer #9 · answered by Knowitall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you miss the point, it isn't that your being logical, and he isnt ,the point is that he is hurting.Find out why discuss it and see what you can do about it next time it happens.
you don't have to beg just act a little more maturely even if he cant
2006-09-14 17:04:08 · answer #10 · answered by brinlarrr 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋