2006-09-14 16:50:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You heard the spin, now let the trtuh begin. 1st off. YOU IN A MINI IS NOT SLUTTY OR WHORISH. Many a pin head would try to cleave the wearing of a mini with someone being a tramp. Think about it? I bet you can point out 4 to 6 girls who hop bed to bed or boy to boy and most do not wear mini skirts. The wearing or not wearing of a mini had nothing to do with what girls participates in booty calls.
Fact from fiction, truth from diction. Your b/f has the poblem not you. He is insecure in the realationship. He feels that you wearing mini will bring unwanted competition to the door. Salting his game maybe. If he truely felt that he was the best thing to ever happen to you, he would not care or worry. Because he would feel that you needed him as a fish need water.
How to deal with it? Give him a dose of his own insecurity. He don't want you wearing a mini. Tell him you don't want him wearing sagging jeans, big baggy shirts like some rapper. Whatever would make an impact. If he balks, bring up the mini. Quit pro qua. Or make agreement that you will wear the mini if you are out with him, and not at other times, but he also has to wear a different style shirt. If what you are not wearing places limitations on him, see how long he is willing to sustain it.
I do not know the depth of your relationship, or where you believe it is, but if you try to meet in the middle and he won't. You may have to decide which is more important; wearing the mini or keeping him around. Again, that depend how vested. If it is something likely to go bust in 12, 14, 18 months. Why bother? Be happy and say take it or leave it. And if you believe him to be to you as water to a fish. Give up minis.
2006-09-16 01:42:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well sweetlady, he's got feelings for you and he's jealous. It just depends, really, on how you feel about him. If it's an issue that you feel as if you're being controlled, then wear the mini skirts and short shirts. If you care about him, tone it down a bit. Try telling him you're wearing them for him, maybe to give him a little charge. Personally, I would enjoy you're wearing them, but I admit I'd really only like it if you wore them when I was around. By the way, you don't have to communicate in "code" like you would if you were text messaging, it's hard to understand your questions. Thanks, and good luck!
2006-09-14 23:55:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends,if your a teen,then start wearing some nice capris or jeans or regular -not-so short skirts or short,a way to tell is put both your hands beside your legs,as long as they go,that is where your they should be...and shirts,just wear regular one...
If your an adult,then dress normal.But For ALL people,dress how you like,dont let people decide for you,unless it's for an emergency.BUT,dont pass the line so much girly!!!lol....
2006-09-15 00:03:09 · answer #3 · answered by love me for me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that depends on whether you want to stay with your bf or not. Also how old are you????????? Nothing wrong with short skirts and short shirts as long as they don't show too much skin although I sure do like them an a sexy gal.
2006-09-14 23:53:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is your boyfriend and you are in a serious relationship there should be no reason that you need to show off. You already have a boyfriend. Now, of course dress comfortably. Im not saying you should cover yourself from head to toe, but guys who care about you will probably wonder why you are dressing like that. They question who you are trying to impress. There is a fine line between looking good for your boyfriend and looking like you are looking for someone else. Something just to keep in mind.
2006-09-14 23:54:22 · answer #5 · answered by Walty 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
break down and let HIM wear them ! He's just jealous, girl ! ( not really, but that's how a lot of guys get. They loved it when they met you, but when they think they got you, they don't want you to look sexy anymore. ) Wear what the hell you want !!!
2006-09-14 23:53:25 · answer #6 · answered by Scorpius59 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey try dresing a little more conservative. He doesn't want you flaunting all you have. He is bothered by other guys attention when seeing you dressed like this. I would try to dress to please him not other guys. Good Luck hope you will try this and see if that will make him feel more secure with you.
2006-09-14 23:58:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can explain him something that that's what you like to wear, tell him that you are not trying to flirt anyone else except him, but if still doesn't agree with you, if you love your boyfriend and you want your relationship would last, obey him. that's all I could think you should do.
2006-09-14 23:54:21 · answer #8 · answered by whitesilk 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Worry more about how to spell rather than how much skin you're flashing around town, for starters.
2006-09-14 23:53:04 · answer #9 · answered by LastNerveLost 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It doesn't matter what he thinks.....it's what you think of yourself that's important.
Be honest with yourself about how you dress......self-respect is everything.
2006-09-14 23:59:10 · answer #10 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋