He lives in another city and I'm coming to visit him soon. It will also be my first time to meet his parents. He wants me to stay in his family's home for my entire stay and although he says it's perfectly alright with his parents, I'm not really sure, since it will be my first time to meet them. I wouldn't want to make a bad impression. We've only been going steady for a month and a couple of weeks.
2006-09-14 16:44:33 · 11 answers · asked by kixter 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
As long as you and your bf have talked it over and he has talked it over with his parents. He said they were ok with it, so I would go for it. But it will be uncomfortable probably. Sleep in seperate rooms and no sex while you are there. That is just respect for his parents!
2006-09-14 17:01:46 · answer #1 · answered by mandyd725 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is OK. But don't sleep in the same room. If there is no extra room for you to stay in then get a hotel room which will be pretty expensive for two weeks. That is a very long time to be spending with someone.
2006-09-14 16:49:12 · answer #2 · answered by Sunflower 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, do not stay with him. This guy is in basic terms going to finally end up ensuing to violence, or perhaps worse. it really is a real tale i'm about to allow you to recognize. I watched an episode of unsolved mysteries once the position they did a section on a lady who develop into with a jealouse and insecure guy who develop into consistently attempting to isolate her from being with relations and pals. He kepy calling her from her workplace and made unreasonable demands. She moved out finally and he began stalking her,so she were given a restraining order hostile to him. He develop into undettered by employing that and develop into arrested and develop into not afraid of the danger of having penal complicated time. Then one morning, her mom referred to as the drugstore which she worked in and positioned she under no circumstances confirmed up for artwork. She referred to as her abode variety and no answer. the mum frantically rushed to her daughters abode and said a bloody knife by a window, then discovered her mendacity useless from repeated stab wounds. the guy continues to be obtainable on the run to this present day from what i trust, which has been really a lot 10 years. So my entire element is that, leave the guy even as it continues to be danger-free before it really is too previous due.
2016-11-26 23:58:49 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's alright with his parents.Every nosy Aunt he has will probably be investigating his new girlfriend! They want u to be on the spot! That is the whole point!! His Mom probably planned the whole thing!! If you do it; be on your best game, girl!!!
2006-09-14 16:52:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Expect a separate bedroom and zero sex. If you can handle that it'll work out just fine.
Honor the parents!
2006-09-14 16:55:24 · answer #5 · answered by wrathofkublakhan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay somewhere else. Two weeks is way too long to be spending time in someone else's home - especially if they don't know you.
2006-09-14 16:47:03 · answer #6 · answered by mJc 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not too good. visit them but stay in a hotel.
2006-09-15 05:56:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say... why not... gives you a chance to see how his family really is just in case there's a future someday
2006-09-14 16:46:31 · answer #8 · answered by Tigger 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you're kidding...I would go nuts! 2 months? and you want to subject yourself to this??? You are a martyr.
2006-09-14 16:46:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
if it's ok with them and it's ok with you then it's ok. you should find a way to speak with them, not through your boyfriend, to get the vibe if it's ok with them.
2006-09-14 16:48:17 · answer #10 · answered by holden 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋