a friend of mine is married to a person who he dispises. He wont even spend any time with her, but he wont' let her go
2006-09-14 16:17:56 · 25 answers · asked by alexsmom_302003 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
she must ve had nothin at the start and now can get half of his assets,, thats why he wont let her go
2006-09-14 16:20:52 · answer #1 · answered by John C 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He may be very serious about the marital vows that he entered into with her and then again it could be that he really truly does love her but doesn't like her ways. It can be hard to tell sometimes but what I do know is that when a man chooses a woman that he wants to marry in his mind it is for keeps. A man can choose to sleep with anybody and keep it moving but to actually take the time out to get to know a woman and make the HUGE decision to marry her speaks volumes as to how he truly feels for that person.
2006-09-14 23:21:29 · answer #2 · answered by 2deep4u 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dispise is a strong word. There is obviously more to it than he is letting you on to. Have you ever thought that maybe he is telling you that to get attention or get closer to you with no intention of ever leaving his wife? I think his wife may have a different side.
2006-09-14 23:21:51 · answer #3 · answered by naughty_mattress_monkey 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people hold their vows true and not matter what, they have chosen to spend their life with that person. Some people are too scared of change or of being alone, that they will put up with someone terrible, just so they always have someone. Sound's like he's scared to be alone.
2006-09-14 23:22:37 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Suki 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know exzactly where you are coming from! i am in the same situation but i am female. i can not stand the man i am with but the reason i will not let go i think is just so that i know is i will always have him there and will not come home to an empty home to be all by my self and pluse he is a great dad
2006-09-14 23:38:50 · answer #5 · answered by kaylee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be he's more into control than love if he won't let her go. Or, it could be they are staying in a loveless marriage for the kids (which never made sense to me but it seems to make sense to some people).
2006-09-14 23:20:48 · answer #6 · answered by live2ride 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its called toleration. He has a roof over his head She probably works and brings home the bacon. Has his dinner ready for him etc. He is able to have a life of brian (do what he wants whenever and wherever with whom ever).
Who knows.
2006-09-14 23:23:58 · answer #7 · answered by aotea s 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you know what. sometimes you just dont want to be alone and even if thats not the case when you have been in love with someone at somepoint in a relationship somtimes you just know that person is for you even if you dont want them to be but if they are not made for eachother you just have to wait it out and let it run its corse and eventually they will live, love , learn, AND LEAVE!!
2006-09-14 23:22:24 · answer #8 · answered by Olivia B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Financial reasons, children, there are many reasons. He is probably just too "comfortable", you would be surprised, there are plenty of married couples who are together because it's just "easier" than going thru a divorce.
2006-09-14 23:22:30 · answer #9 · answered by POPPY 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A person can't stay married to someone they despise, That is like slow and painful death.
2006-09-14 23:20:38 · answer #10 · answered by karicat 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋