I just got married about 4 months ago and my husband seems to not want to have sex as much.. how do i get him in the mood?
2006-09-14 16:08:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
tell him your horney and you want to go for a beer by yourself.
2006-09-14 16:12:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is normal. Before marriage man thinks everything is with his girlfriend and to get all he loves, he marries her. Finally after couple of months he discovers there is nothing special with herand get fedup.This is called immotional dissapointment. It will be ok in next six months. love ur husband more than u r doing. now. Do what ever he likes even if u dislike to do so. Go out. have a sex under the full moon mid night. see sexual films. Ask ur married friends to come to ur home with their husbands/wives for a nite. Drink some liquer with him. do funny things. do sex under the shower, in the tub or anywhere. Change ur home for a couple of months if u can. ( I will tell u more. Mail me)
2006-09-15 01:10:00 · answer #2 · answered by sanju 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the drive just wanes with age or the passion just fades also with time being together. Ive been married for eight years and its the situation where I'm the one who isn't as aggressive with our sex drive. Fortunately I have a wonderful loving husband who tolerates me for that but I let him look at porn if he so desires. Compromises must be willing to be made. That is something to which you need to address in order to come to a happy medium or you will be looking elsewhere sooner or later!
2006-09-14 23:16:13 · answer #3 · answered by soniaatcalifornia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him. Talk to him about it. Do whatever you can to get him to open up. He may be stressed about work; he may be overly tired. He may be worried about something. Set some ground rules before you have this talk - no mud slinging and no hurt feelings. My husband and I use a codeword (ours is bubblegum) when we have to say something that the other might not want to hear. This is the signal that we do not want to fight at all, but there is something that we really have to talk about. This codeword (it's silly on purpose) sets the stage so we both get into the mindset that whatever is said is not meant to hurt the other, but that we have to communicate about what's going on. Sex is a very touchy subject and conversations about it can be awkward, but before you check out Victoria's Secret or KY's new line, find out what's really going on. I wish you luck!
2006-09-14 23:16:09 · answer #4 · answered by Megan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well there is one thing that always seems to get a guy in the mood even if he claims he dosent like it, wait for him to leave send him to the store or somthing while hes gone set up a romantic scene laungerie, and candles rent a porn and when he gets in set him down to watch it with you while touching him. you have to be self confedent but if you decide to do it itll work like a charm i was recently experiencing the same problem untill i did that!
GOOD LUCK!
2006-09-14 23:18:11 · answer #5 · answered by Olivia B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have "date" time where you get away from every day pressures of household and jobs and bills etc so you can have some romantic time to appreciate each other and the things that brought you close in the first place...
and appreciate the little things - does wonders
2006-09-14 23:18:18 · answer #6 · answered by E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what you used to do, it worked then.
2006-09-14 23:31:00 · answer #7 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try asking him what his fantancys are and a the both of act them out together
2006-09-14 23:19:50 · answer #8 · answered by dee d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a boyfriend.
2006-09-14 23:15:28 · answer #9 · answered by tom90712 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
......work it better
2006-09-14 23:11:00 · answer #10 · answered by luscious_lips_051306 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋