I'm married, he's married is it possible were both not happy in that dept.
2006-09-14 16:03:41 · 19 answers · asked by Toni A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
-Is it possible? Of course. I'm not going to speak about what is right & wrong cuz you are an adult & know this.
2006-09-14 16:05:24 · answer #1 · answered by IMHO 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't married *to each other*, then nothing good can ever come of what you're doing. Of course it is possible that you're both unhappy in your own marriages, but adultery can only make a bad situation worse, and I think you know that. I urge you to cut it out and repent, right now. Confess your sin before the Lord, and ask Him to forgive you and help you both to mend your marriages. And for Heaven's sake stay away from each other. Go home to your spouses, where you belong.
2006-09-14 23:20:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. That's why you had the affair to begin with right? Heck, that's why most people have affairs. It doesn't mean you don't love the person you're married to, it just means that they don't complete you. You probably haven't been satisfied for a long time. But just remember, there is a very high price to pay for your adultery...
2006-09-14 23:40:50 · answer #3 · answered by Shawnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While I am not saying it can never happen, I am certain that it is very seldom that you really fall in love. You get so wrapped up in the excitement and secrecy of the affair that it is confused for love.
2006-09-14 23:09:54 · answer #4 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to look deep inside and make sure of your feelings. Affairs are like dating again its exiting and new but alot of people confuse those feelings for love. Make sure it him you love and not just the exitement.
2006-09-14 23:08:13 · answer #5 · answered by mcncln 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no because if youre having an affair,, then no love is involved,, and you dont care about any ones feelings,, if youre cheating on your husband now,, youll do the same w/ whomever youre w/ in the same circumstance,, once you build a pattern , it hardly ever changes
2006-09-14 23:08:42 · answer #6 · answered by John C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get out of that relationship quickly. emphasis on quickly. you will get hurt. concentrate on your marriage and what you can do to make your marriage better each and every day. go to a marriage counselor or some kind of counselor if you are not happy in your marriage. this is a wake-up call for you.
2006-09-14 23:07:48 · answer #7 · answered by gloria123445566 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are married and sexually involved with another person then obviously your not happy.
Shame on you
you should try to sort your problems out at home before you get emotionally involved with someone else.
Both of you deserve each other
2006-09-14 23:07:20 · answer #8 · answered by askaway 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is possilbe.. but be careful you are swimming in dangerous water.. Been there and done that.. no one found out
but it could have ended really messy.
2006-09-15 00:01:09 · answer #9 · answered by chick29 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. what it is. Is a lie. They are giving you what you should be asking for from your spouce. try talking to them and getting some help. Trust me it will work
2006-09-14 23:07:13 · answer #10 · answered by weldergooroo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋