My husband is a cab driver and he does alot of flirting with the attractive females he picks up. He tells me that there is nothing physical going on and I trust him but the flirting still pisses me off.
2006-09-14 16:01:58 · 12 answers · asked by mrskyesha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Flirting is just a part of life. Every person likes to feel they are beautiful and attractive to the other sex. My husband does that occasionally in front of me. I don't care. Ive been actually with alot of men who flirted in front of me. It all is just a matter of perspective I guess. I can be insecure at times and other times I'm not. You can't control someone so you will have to find a way to cope with it or get rid of him. I don't have any solid answers for you. I wish I did. Life is never easy.
2006-09-14 16:09:41 · answer #1 · answered by soniaatcalifornia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably just working his tips. How do you know he flirts? Are you with him during his work? Tell me he doesn't come home and tell you! What a jackass if so.
Anyway, If you start seeing phone numbers in his wallet or jacket ... then his flirting may be more than innocent. Keep your gaurd up, and don't nag too much. It may be all innocent and if you nag too much, you'll push him to do the very thing that you don't want!
2006-09-14 16:06:25 · answer #2 · answered by lester 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From his statement " there nothing physical going on " I believe you have both talked about this n he still doing what makes you " pissed off" and unhappy , shows that he's not considering your feelings and discounting them indicates he"s going to do what makes him happy.
Hence, I don't believe that you can do anything about his flirting but you sure can do some serious thinking about what you're going to do for yourself.....especially why are u putting up with it.
2006-09-14 16:18:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you do do something, you might just agitate him to flirt even more .. .
being a cad driver doesnt really have its merits but it does pay for the bills and you . .
without the flirting, i dont think he'd be able to get by the whole day behind the wheel in those traffic jams and being alone ...
so please try to understand ....
if you know that he is faithful, then believe him
2006-09-14 16:19:53 · answer #4 · answered by megadisc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a bit much to have to put up with!! You will just have to start doing some flirting yourself and see how he likes it.
2006-09-14 16:11:35 · answer #5 · answered by POPPY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Husbands are to be faithful to there wife's in all aspects. Its does not matter where he works.If he knows this is bothering you and still does it then it sounds like he is trying to make you mad.So I say maybe you need to separate and get your feelings together and see what happens.
2006-09-14 16:14:31 · answer #6 · answered by starlight203_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him to stop flirting around with the women he picks up, because he's married, he shouldn't be flirting with any other females, besides you.
2006-09-14 16:04:42 · answer #7 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably just doing it for tips AND more attention from you (I assume he tells you about his flirtations).
Men have very bizarre ways of asking for more attention. They are like babies.
2006-09-14 16:21:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's working for his tips. Relax and let him bring home the bacon.
2006-09-14 16:45:30 · answer #9 · answered by dirkdiggler9999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were you i would get a divorce if he really loved you he wouldn't be flirting with other girls
2006-09-14 16:06:26 · answer #10 · answered by becky w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋