i have seen a perfect example of how girls deceive you...i have experienced how almost all ladies take advantage of guys. even the sweetest most innocent girl will decieve many guys into thinking that the girl loves him and just breaks up with him, goes on to the next guy, and the next guy.....its just a little game. she makes you think she is such a nice girl thats always getting hurt by guys....but deep down she is really different. girls hurt guys more than the guys hurt the girls
WHY DOES THIS HAPPEN???
2006-09-14 15:59:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You might not like what I have to say but its my point of view. You don't have to like it. I wouldn't blame you
I think its really what you have experienced. Both men and woman can be decieving. I think the main problem lies in the fact it's just best not to take things too seriously early on. It's best to let something build into a solid foundation. Whenever i'm in a relationship even if i do have feelings for the guy its hard for me to want to commit. I like my freedom, if a guy gives me freedom to date other guys *not necessarily do anything sexual with them* then what is the harm in that? Teens take relationships too seriously u dont want to end up with the wrong person and when u find THE ONE then yes u shouldnt go around dating other girls/guys. I dont see relationships as a "game" , but its really just experimentation - "would i want to be with this person the rest of my life" .
Everyone is different so you just have to find a girl that obviously is not like me that wants her freedom, but i am honest with other guys i tell them whats going on. They arnt always happy but some of them are willing to accept that. It's a risk, but a risk that must be taken.
Better to have loved, then not at all. Be yourself u will find a girl theres lots of fish in the sea. I've gotten hurt many times, but i've accepted it. I do complain about it from time to time we all do. It's part of human nature. But from that we can grow. I dont enjoy it trust me. Don't let girls step all over you!
2006-09-14 16:43:06 · answer #1 · answered by Elitestardragon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all women are like this. I make it a point to be honest and upfront but sometimes you men dont get the picture. Its like we talk a differant language to some of you. Now I know there are alot of evil women out there but there are honest sincere ones too. Take a good look at the type of women you are going out w/and try to figure out the main characteristic about all of them. Maybe the problem is the type of women your choosing and you need to change that and stroll down a differant path of women. Dont be such a push over also. Its okay to be there and to help out but enough is enough and a sincere women would understand that. Make them prove themselves worthy of you before bending over backwards. Now thats not to say not to be courting but dont Kiss butt. And for babeedoll's comment...I have to agree to a point...we all are CAPABLE of being evil but its not saying that we would. Morally some of us think of the other persons feelings and are truely honestly sincere.
2006-09-14 16:22:06 · answer #2 · answered by Ivory_Flame 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all, not all girls are like this but I do see this happen often!! Who knows maybe they just get board easy or they came up with a plan to dump the guys before they dump them. Keep looking U will find someone right for U that is not into these games.
2006-09-14 16:07:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whenever you meet a girl and you think that she is the sweetest, nicest person, you need to watch out. It is usually those that you have to look out for. Let me tell you something even though i shouldnt. ALL women are evil. Whether they are brave enough to admit it or not, they all are. You may think that because we are girls we should think about other people and their feelings, but we dont. We are selfish, mean and not ashamed of it. What you should do is look for a girl that shows her true colors from the beggining, that way you know what to expect.
2006-09-14 16:21:37 · answer #4 · answered by babeedoll694 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will admit that it does happen on both sides but girls are just evil and get very vengeful if you are not careful and yes they do go on and on about some sob story but most of the time it is just to get you to feel sorry for her.
If no one did it on either side the world would be a better place.
2006-09-14 16:03:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why Does This Happen?
Because You Allow It. If You Don't Allow It, It won't Happen.
The Issue is taking advantage... Will you let any guy you met take advantange over you??? If not then why you let girl take charge of your life?and, they don't know what to do with it. Its like "You give a a woolen ball to your cat, she plays for a while and then moves on"
2006-09-14 16:15:33 · answer #6 · answered by direct2leo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hehehe youre in for the ride of your life
most girls dont really know what they want
they easily get distacted
like me i could really really l ike a guy for about a month then another one comes along and then i also fall for that guy
its just vice versa men love looking at other girls, and having three girlfriends at a time
so it would really just be fine if girls also start playing men's game, if men would start being honest with their women,they will make women loyal, but if men are also screwed up
then screw you too
thats how life is
2006-09-14 16:06:26 · answer #7 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you ask the girls that have done it to you.
and not all girls are the same. just because one girl
does somthing, doesnt meen that everyother girl is
gunna do the same thing. do dont catagorize.
no ones perfect and everything happens for a reason.
its all a part of life.
2006-09-14 16:05:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called dating men and women both are to blame for that. It happens because people in general can't stand to be single and will do anything to be with someone else.
2006-09-14 16:05:26 · answer #9 · answered by loveorlust06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing I can say to this is not all women are alike don't prejudge us. Also maybe it's time to take a look at the women you attract and maybe break the cycle now.
2006-09-14 16:06:15 · answer #10 · answered by white_farie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋