2006-09-14 15:54:36 · 28 answers · asked by smiley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Absolutely Not. Its morally incorrect and it will destroy the integrity in yourself. Honesty is the best policy. Why would you allow to be used by one that will be nothing to you afterwards and to possibly give something to the innocent by stander, your spouse. Lets not be so foolish and selfish. Its not just you and your lover thats involved here.
2006-09-14 16:02:36 · answer #1 · answered by Ivory_Flame 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. How would you feel if your partner had an affair? Have you thought about how much pain you will cause when you are found out - and you probably will be?
If you are unhappy in your marriage, then have the courage to leave your partner now. If you are just staying in the relationship because you don't want to be alone, and then jump ship when someone better comes along, you are USING your partner and that is a despicable thing to do.
2006-09-14 23:01:32 · answer #2 · answered by Kylie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never. It is a lie that good results can be achieved through bad actions.
Perhaps, when immediate gratification is at hand and consequences are obscure and down the road, it may appear tempting since it seems like you are getting away with something.
Or the other lie, which is that I will just do it a little bit (balance it) then be satisfied. The truth is that anyway you dress it up it is a lie.
The lie is just bait luring you in to a trap. Because that little bit, then I'll walk away from it (I'll be satisfied) is denying the truth that within the bait is a hooked. And to be hooked, in both a literal and spiritual terms, is to be taken captive. Hence we become a slave to our own selfish desires.
2006-09-14 23:12:43 · answer #3 · answered by quarterton2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NO and NO.. If u do not want 2 be wit ur husband or wife u need to let them kno and either get counceling or get a divorce. u need 2 communicate wit ur partner why u are feeling the need 2 stray and if he or she isn't pleasing u then u should do something about it. People nowadays take wedding vows 2 lightly and this is why we have so much adultery. It is a sin and u shouldn't do it no matter what. If u absoultely can not be happy wit this man or woman END IT. plain and simple.
2006-09-14 22:59:38 · answer #4 · answered by ANC_40 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never. First off you haev taken a vow you need to uphold. Secondly, you stand to hurt a lot of people if there are children or family involved. Do you want to be responsible for a child crying because their mom or dad has left them? An affair is a very selfish thing to do, there is no way to justify it even if you are unhappy in your marriage.
2006-09-14 23:03:58 · answer #5 · answered by thrill88 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't being sexually satisfied, yep. Just don't have one for emotional reasons or get too close with the guy that you're having an affair with. It's all about sex. Don't chat with him, don't hang out with him, don't kiss him. And if you think you might feel guilty afterwards and have to confess to your partner, don't have an affair. Confessing ALWAYS does more harm than good.
2006-09-14 23:01:38 · answer #6 · answered by Jae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you want to have an affair if you married someone whom you will spend the rest your lives together...
No affair is worth exchanging marriage... That is the stupidest question i have ever read... Are you sure you know what marriage is?
2006-09-14 23:00:33 · answer #7 · answered by kim B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only if you don't value and care about what you have. An affair is something that you are willing to do even after realizing your life will change forever and there is no going back.
2006-09-14 22:58:38 · answer #8 · answered by estrella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How could it ever be worth it to ruin a marriage and a family? How could it ever be worth losing the respect of your family and friends? How about losing your children in a divorce?
2006-09-14 22:59:04 · answer #9 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is a lists of results of having affair: \
- sin against God and man
- destroys trust between couples
- you will be financially affected coz specially if she or he is a gold-digger
- you will be rob of peace of mind
- majority cause of divorces and separation & borken homes
- you might be a potential candidate for murder
- you will reap shame and guilt for the rest of your life
- you might be the talk of the town
Now, you decide, what road to take. but remember you can do it at your own risk.
2006-09-14 23:08:24 · answer #10 · answered by dtmc542006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋