I met this guy name Micheal and he came up to me one day and was very friendly and very sane then I started noticing things in his behaver for example when ever he saw me he always asked for a hug and for some strange reason he knows where all my classses are , but whats more wierd is the second I walk out of the classroom there he is standing there waiting for me
and today in band (we both play the clarinets)I asked one of the other clarinets if I could sit next to them and the moment I sat down Micheal moved his things to be next to me...then as we were playing Some song he stopped in the middle of it, put his clarinet down,and just watched me...I wanted to cry it was
creapy...Lately, I have not been accepting his hugs but now he just watches me talk to my friends and follows me to lunch.He is making me uncomfortable.last week he sung me a song in front of everybody (love song).And he's always telling me"I hope im not creeping you out but I cant stop thinking about you"!
2006-09-14 15:45:36 · 8 answers · asked by Z ten 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
PLEASE AT LEAST TRY THIS 1ST:
I've done this twice in my life and it was 100% effective. You need to get a friend who is close to you who will not tell people what your plan is. Have him around and act a little aggrivated, then have your friend ask you a question and when she does breath in slow, but deep and scream in her face. I mean yell like you are pissed and call her stupid. Then tell her to get away from you before you hurt her. Assuming that he's NEVER seen you this way before, you will scare the **** out of him. BUT, just in case he thinks it was an issolated insident. Wait 'till the next day and then act like you are on your cell phone and scream something like: " NO, BOBBY I TOLD YOU TO STOP CALLING, IF YOU DON'T STOP I'M GOING TO .......... and then threaten to like chop it off or something. BUT you do have to be serious about the things that you yell. I swear you'll scare him far more than what he scares you.
2006-09-14 16:10:38 · answer #1 · answered by josiedickelman 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I take it this from the issues you listed, that you are both in high school. The first thing, trust your instincts. It sounds at the least that he is overly pushy and at the worse could be something worse.
When he says things like "I hope I'm not creeping you out" I would suggest to tell him "I feel very uncomfortable when you try to follow me around, could you give me some space, please?"
If he's a decent guy he will back off. If he gets upset or continues this, then you know you are dealing with a person that does not respect your wishes to say the least.
If it continues, could you say something to someone in the principal's office? They need to be aware that a guy is refusing to leave you alone.
2006-09-14 22:51:16 · answer #2 · answered by Searcher 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that he is freaking you out. He might just be infatuated and wants you to know it. If he still follows you just be like "Dude, stop or I'm getting one of my big football player friends involved." If that doesn't work then tell a parent or something.
Uggg good luck!
2006-09-14 22:48:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, I would tell your parents, the principal, a counselor, teachers, etc. about the situation. Then I would tell him that he is freaking you out and to please stop. Then ignore him and see what happens. If he still follows you, ask the principal or a counselor to talk to him. If that doesn't stop his behavior, call the police and ask them what to do. Good luck...
2006-09-14 23:02:22 · answer #4 · answered by just me 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
TURN,AIM,SHOOT! Not with a firearm but with a camera. This wil add proof that the person or persons are actually within distance to harm you. Guys , thisalso works for us against women who think possessoin is theirs for claiming.
2006-09-15 00:16:33 · answer #5 · answered by bopper 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best thing to do is tell someone you trust what you are feeling if they can't help go to the police. Stalking is a crime
2006-09-14 22:57:26 · answer #6 · answered by badDoug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like him go out with him he sounds sweet i would love if a boy sang a song to me(but not a love song a metal song by slayer) ask him out just forget about him stalking you just act like you two just ment i hope it works out
2006-09-14 22:52:33 · answer #7 · answered by FrozenCyclone Xmen Rule 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
tell him to stop if he doesn't then next time he creeps you out kick him in the balls
2006-09-14 22:52:00 · answer #8 · answered by Free Ganja 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋