i want good answers not religous ones
2006-09-14 15:26:34 · 19 answers · asked by Doomsday 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
how the fu ck did it happen for a reason?! no one ask to be raped!
2006-09-14 15:30:19 · update #1
ok i will say this agian NO RELIGOUS AND PRO LIFE CRAP!!!
2006-09-14 15:34:30 · update #2
Hell no. It would be like reliving the rape everytime you felt the baby move; and then you would have to tell the child how he/she was conceived. This is not a moral issue, it's an emotional one.
2006-09-14 15:30:49 · answer #1 · answered by not2nite 4 · 5⤊ 3⤋
Saying it happened for a reason is messed up. First, I would take the morning after pill so I might avoid the abortion all together. then, I'm afrai I would have to abort the baby. Yes, it's still my child, but there is no way it's fair to have the baby i already have who was conceived out of a loving relationship then have a baby I would have to tell was conceived out of rape. And no, adoption would not be an option because i know from personal experience that you fall in love with the child during pregnancy.
2006-09-14 15:38:00 · answer #2 · answered by Squirrel 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I am child of a rapist I don"t know who my father is my mother is mentally handicapped and was drugged raped by several men I often wonder who my father is and what would I say to him if I ever met him but it"s impossible to find out I am not depressed or have any other mental problems I just go on with my life day to day. I guess what i am trying to say is yes I would keep the baby.
2006-09-14 16:13:21 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
This is a very touchy subject concerning abortion. I am totally against abotion,but have certain ethics on what should be done. I think you should consider carrying the baby full term, then CHARGE the RAPIST with CHILD SUPPORT obligations until the child is 21 or in college. Or set it up for ADOPTION so they can say they lived life to the max of their duration.
2006-09-14 19:29:22 · answer #4 · answered by bopper 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes. Being a mother is one of the most rewarding experiences any woman can have. A baby loves you unconditionally. The child will more than make up for the initial experience that created the baby.
Be sure however to show that child love instead of anger and resentment. And wait until the child is old enough to understand before you tell him or her how they were conceived.
2006-09-14 15:32:31 · answer #5 · answered by LL 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You know it's is very easy to come up with an answer when it has not happened to you, but i would say that yes i would have the baby. I may give it up for adoption because the realization of how it came into this world may be to painful to bear, but the child definately has a right to live. (The baby had NO part in the rape.)
2006-09-14 15:39:30 · answer #6 · answered by foreverfriendsjc 1 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Adoption
2006-09-14 15:28:25 · answer #7 · answered by Stan the answer Man 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
At this particular time in my life, knowing what I know, yes I would not terminate the pregnancy. Keep the baby? I don't think so. Place for adoption? Good chance.
2006-09-14 15:33:49 · answer #8 · answered by Rachel☺ 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I would keep the baby. The baby would not be hated. I would keep it and never let go. I would not see the baby as a result of sin but as a beautiful fact of life.
Yah I would keep that little cutie.
2006-09-14 15:32:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Oh yeah, You get violated, pregnant and you want to know if you should go through 9 months of discomfort and pain just to end up with a screaming sucking poop-machine? What are you, Nuts?
2006-09-14 15:36:26 · answer #10 · answered by iknowtruthismine 7 · 1⤊ 4⤋