it's over I've accepted it, yet he shows up where i hang out, he makes it clear to my sister that he hates my guts, we have to work together three days a week, i avoid him as much as i can, last week, i'm hanging out with my friends, he shows up, ask the bartender to change the music, he knew i was playing, later him and his brother walk out with food to go, and lo and behold when i go out later to my car there is catsup smeared on my windshield.
He walked up to two of my friends to inform them he was going to a wedding where i knew one of his ex's would be, just wanted them to know he would be hanging out with her, why should I care.
I'm not sure where all this anger is coming from, but what if it gets worse.
2006-09-14 15:25:05 · 12 answers · asked by snickerdoodle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ask him to stop. If he doesn't put a restraining order on him.
2006-09-14 15:29:09 · answer #1 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's immature. And I think the catsup stunt is illegal. Something like malicious vandalism to personal property. I wouldn't sue him over the catsup stunt. He's a child & will probably get distracted soon and do other childish things elsewhere. Act like he's not bothering you. He's only doing it to bother you. If it doesn't bother you, he'll move on to other moronic behaviors eventually, maybe soon.
2006-09-14 15:31:16 · answer #2 · answered by Bronweyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are such little boys.They don't particularly like been dumped.
To be honest, it makes them look stupid with there mates.
There could be alittle stalking about to happen as well. If the situation got out of hand, youmay need to leave you job and acquire another elsewhere, if thats possible.
2006-09-14 15:32:05 · answer #3 · answered by aotea s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have some really big men beat him up especially brothers, cousins, friends. Also try a restraining order.
2006-09-14 15:30:00 · answer #4 · answered by Ms. Lise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the cops and just ignore the childish behaviour.
2006-09-14 15:29:39 · answer #5 · answered by Emma G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep records of what he's doing. When you have sufficient evidence, you can have him arrested for stalking. Also, if he hurts you, you can get an order of protection against him.
2006-09-14 15:29:06 · answer #6 · answered by salsera 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He knows it bothers u so if u try and act like it dont maybe he will back off... Plus hes just inmature....
2006-09-14 15:38:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore him. Dont let him see that he is getting to you, pissing you off. It sounds like he wants to piss you off and cause you pain. If you act like you dont care, it wont fuel his fire. Good luck
2006-09-14 15:29:02 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet if you stopped sleepin with his friends it mite help !
2006-09-14 15:32:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the cops, sweetie and report that he is harrassing you! Take a stand and mean it..........if you are serious!
2006-09-14 15:28:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋