Do you know when you meet someone that there is something different, something special in them. When you kiss them good night and feel like your whole life just changed with a kiss, is it real? Have you ever experienced this. I am 40 something and this is different.
2006-09-14 15:24:56 · 10 answers · asked by rikv77 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well personally I have to disagree with mr mold or whatever his name was on the grow into it answer,you dont grow into love,it grows into you and either you feel it or you dont,love at first site,whos to say,it could be,I noticed your not wearing glasses so I think your site might be perfect
2006-09-14 15:34:43 · answer #1 · answered by TAMMY M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think it is, but it's not necessarily the lasting kind. Sorry.
When I met my first husband, there was no spark - but we became best friends and our marriage lasted several years. A few years later I had a "love at first sight" experience, and ended up living with the guy for a while. But it did wear off.
Like someone else said, it's pheromones, which only means that you are physically in tune. It doesn't mean that you have anything in common, or that you are soulmates. You might be, or you might find you violently disagree with each others' values and beliefs, OR that you can't stand living with each other. The trouble is, while you're feeling starry-eyed, you're not likely to see those things clearly.
Be aware that things may not turn out as you hope, keep an open mind.
2006-09-14 23:09:59 · answer #2 · answered by Kylie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It's either wishful thinking or "lust at first sight". If all it takes to change your whole life is a mere kiss, you must really be a basket case. Have a little self-respect, for pete's sake, and give it time. At age 40, you should be very, very well aware that love is something you grow into together. If it's not mutual, it is not love at all but the first of my suggestions above.
2006-09-14 22:30:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i met my hubby almost 2 years ago. met him at a park and fell in love with him the first tiem i laid eyes on him, he also felt the same way,. we have been together everyday since, got married in May of this year. and i still get butterflies everytime i am around him . best of luck
2006-09-14 22:29:35 · answer #4 · answered by kyren1999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At your age it's possible except if you're one kind Don Juan who gets hot at first sight
2006-09-14 22:31:32 · answer #5 · answered by good-for-all 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I firmly believe it is.. it has happened to me. I think it has something to do with pheromones. It is the best feeling in the world and it never went away.
2006-09-14 22:29:33 · answer #6 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go so far as to guarantee that it happens because it happened to me. Tell her how you feel!
2006-09-14 22:32:41 · answer #7 · answered by bolandalbaby@verizon.net 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to my experience, this is very true.
2006-09-14 22:41:24 · answer #8 · answered by dtmc542006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!!
2006-09-14 22:48:46 · answer #9 · answered by Cameron D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO!!!
2006-09-14 22:32:49 · answer #10 · answered by flygurl4life89 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋