i don't want to not tell my boy bestfriend and he finds out i knew and mess up our friendship. but then i don't want to tell him and mess up my friendship with my girl bestfriend
2006-09-14 15:20:39 · 8 answers · asked by Mixed Chick 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think u should talk to ur girl B/F and tell her that if she really doesn't dig ur Boy B/F to leave him alone to avoid problems on both ends.
2006-09-14 15:23:54 · answer #1 · answered by lu-lu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a boyfriend who was cheating on me when I was in high school (long time ago). All of my girlfriends knew but didn't want me to get hurt. I hurt 100X times more when 1 good friend finally told me the truth and advised that everyone else knew before me. I lost a lot of so-called friends after that. Also, in today's world condoms aren't considered a 100% guarantee. If my guy was cheating on me and someone else knew, especially a best friend, I would hope that they respect me enough to tell me for my own health. It' hard enough to practice safe sex these days, we can always use help when it's called for. I'd rat out the loser in a second even if it isn't my business, it's my friends health I'd consider first and foremost.
2006-09-14 22:43:53 · answer #2 · answered by Pearl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. What your girl best friend is doing is wrong and it's hurting your guy best friend. Put yourself in his place. Wouldn't you want to know.
Anyone who has what it takes to cheat on another significant other, yet doesn't have the courage to be honest with the one they're cheating on by just being up front and telling them they want to date others, deserves to be busted. Just watch the television program "Cheaters."
2006-09-14 22:34:03 · answer #3 · answered by soulguy85 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
None of your business.......zip the lip.....things have a way of coming out eventually. This is all immature stuff anyway and does not matter in the big scheme of things!
2006-09-14 22:23:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
y dont u try to tell the girl that it is wrong 4 her to do this try to make her tell him and if that dont work tell the guy she is cheatin on him with try to do everything u can befor goin to you guyb/f.if that guy knows tell ur guy b/f think about it if she is liein to ur otherb/f then cant she be liein to u
2006-09-14 22:25:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darling stay out of it the truth will come out sooner or later.
If you feel that you should say something say it to her not him.
2006-09-14 22:31:02 · answer #6 · answered by Emma G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is your life dear, it is best not to interfere in others personal life. but if you are very close why don't you give a hint to your g/ best friend to mend her ways
2006-09-14 22:26:47 · answer #7 · answered by johan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dead yes,, sure do!
2006-09-14 22:22:23 · answer #8 · answered by ??Dani??? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋