ever since a little incident i had at school, no one has been talking to me! what should i do?
2006-09-14 15:17:59 · 12 answers · asked by Vanessa 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ok well the incident was that i was flirting with some other girls "boyfriend" but when i say boyfriend i mean she thinks hes her boyfriend and he doesnt think of it that way. so now that shes telling everyone they are "going out together" people think that he is cheating on her with me... i thought what i did was wrong, but she didnt even like him! so people have stopped talking to me because they are on her side! am i right or wrong?
2006-09-14 16:15:20 · update #1
ride it out people will soon forget and move on to someone elses problem it is how society works we dwell on the past only as long as something more interesting isnt happening in the present all your friends still love you and care they are just not wanting the lime light on them give them time they will come around and take care of your lonelyness
2006-09-14 15:25:06 · answer #1 · answered by timothy f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you must have done something you should not have. If no one is talking to you it had to be pretty offensive. You said it was a "little incident." I doubt it. You'll have to either apologize or wait the allotted time till they let it pass (but will not forget). Your character may be at stake here. Think about an apology. Humble youself, they may forgive and forget or at least remember you humbled yourself. It you want to be forgiven for your futue transgressions you'll have to get a puppy. That's just the way life is.
2006-09-14 22:25:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell us what happened. wait it out. someone will approach you and begin chatting once again. Incidents happens all the time. Back in May1, my boss takes away OT then the next day some guy they hire to "help" me with this file room I hd no idea of. SO I just quit like an idiot. All winter of hard work and lots of OT, I finally see sunlight and I flipout. Now I'm still looking for work...We all mess up time to time. I hv interview tomorrow....so cheer up......good luck
2006-09-14 22:23:45 · answer #3 · answered by Necat T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People can be cruel at times, and the more they know it bothers you, the longer they'll keep it up. You cannot undo the past; you can only go forward into the future. Simply be who you want to be in life, because the people who care, don't really matter, and the people that really matter, don't care. By being who you are, you will attract those people who like you for who you are, and those are the truest friends and lovers you can ever hope to find.
2006-09-14 22:23:37 · answer #4 · answered by eric l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply continue to be yourself, all will fade in time. Look in the mirrow and love that person first, that person in the mirrow will be with you for the rest of your life. Your to young to be worrying about these things, it might hurt where your at right now but it will soon past. Make new friends and continue with a great smile, that will attrack a better attitude of people for you to meet.
2006-09-14 22:26:07 · answer #5 · answered by ricardo v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depend on what the incident was but try to get more involed in school and try to forget whatever went wrong in school and be active and dont let little things put you down (but it all depends what went wrong)
2006-09-14 22:37:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my heart goes out to you.......these can be hard days...
but be patient - they will move on to another topic before long.....
kids can be mean.....but the more you enable them the more they feel they have the right to judge.....another words, move right on like it is a whole new day......when realize it is of no issue to you - they will move on too......
best wishes Hon!
2006-09-14 22:21:30 · answer #7 · answered by Marsha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its hard to help you when we dont know what happen and why people stop talking to you.just apologize if you did something wrong.
2006-09-14 22:21:13 · answer #8 · answered by ladyrena12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep ur chin up and smile. They'll wonder why u r smiling...it works....really
2006-09-14 22:21:15 · answer #9 · answered by Golden Hair 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start talking to others.
2006-09-14 22:21:19 · answer #10 · answered by fiona_rabbit2013 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋