On my opinion, when i knew him first time I fell just like then we hangout, watch movie, dinner, talk telephone.....I feel very like him. After that we had make love u know I fell love him very very love!!! I miss him, want to close to him all the time, worry ab him if he didn't call me, jelous when he talk to other girl!!! I haven't act like these when I had sex!!! I think I care of him bcuase I had sex with him that make me love him very much, isn't it???
2006-09-14 15:14:47 · 17 answers · asked by nonglnalak 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i don't think so...love comes from you heart
2006-09-14 15:16:26 · answer #1 · answered by pimple_girl88 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been going through the same thing recently. I have dating a nice guy for a month and a half. He kept pressuring me to have sex. Come lay down with me, I felt uncomfortable and wanted more time. I finally laid in bed with him and within a week we had sex. I feel like I fell in love after we made love. Unfortunately he played a game on me and told me that he loved me. I figured I would give in at that point. A couple day's later, I tell him I am falling in love with him and the next day he tells me we are getting too attached. He thinks we better slow down. What's up with that? I really felt hurt!!! Screw him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-14 22:32:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a massive difference between loving someone and being infatuated with them. There is also a huge difference between loving someone and loving the concept of being in love with someone. Also, just because someone has sex with you, doesn't mean they love you at all. Boys, or men, view sex different than girls, or women, do, and it means different things to them.
Right now you sound clingy and desparate. Back off and see what he does. Just because you had sex with him does not mean diddly squat. You could just be gullible and stupid, for pete's sake, and you wouldn't be the first - nor will you be the last.
2006-09-14 22:22:05 · answer #3 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is not everything so don't let that get in the way. You have to really get to know who this guy is. If he's talking to other girls behind your back then he probably doesn't love you. What you may be feeling is lust rather than love.
2006-09-14 22:22:36 · answer #4 · answered by danikatspecial 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it's all depends on what kind of relationship u are in. well if u are married u would have more love when u have sex. u only surpose to feel love when having sex is when u marry cause if u have sex with your boyfriend no telling if he is not your soul mate or something can happen to him before u marry him. u only feel love having sex is when u are marry that's the right way.
2006-09-14 22:31:29 · answer #5 · answered by redivy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you were not truly ready for a relationship no girl keeps a guy because she had sex with him ;boys don't take it as serious as girls .it is not healthy to be around one person all the time everyone needs their own space;if you try to keep him too close or act to jealous you could lose him all together if he truly cares for you he is not going to go anyplace unless you push him away with your actions
2006-09-14 22:50:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is not everything in a relationship. Its physical. Love goes beyond the physical. If that is the only thing that your partner values in you then he does not really love you.
2006-09-14 22:21:06 · answer #7 · answered by japsie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i do believe you are in lust not love! love comes over time not just from one experience....it may have made you feel closer to him, but think long and hard about what it is you love about him, not just the usual mumbo jumbo, but what you really think it is about him that is so special from everyone else.....don't jump the gun LOVE is a splendid, dangerous thang....BEST OF LUCK
2006-09-14 22:20:04 · answer #8 · answered by nascar_cr8zy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sex emits strong hormonal changes in the brain. give the relationship time to grow. sex distorts emotions.
2006-09-14 22:18:36 · answer #9 · answered by sweet_shy_blondie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how old are you you sound like a teenager who just lost her cherry to a guy and fell head over heels you sound young and dont know any better
2006-09-14 22:17:49 · answer #10 · answered by crow_rez 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, i've had friends dump people after sex so that's not going to make you fall in love.
2006-09-14 22:16:47 · answer #11 · answered by Lady G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋