Yes or No.?

Question

Well my friend (Jessica) use to like this one guy (Kieve). but i did like kieve too, i just never told her, so one day.. kieve came online and we started talking and he asked me to be his girlfriend.. knowing that jessica liked him i said to him no and i asked him to ask jessica out instead, then he told me that jessica wasnt his type. (he already knew that jessica liked him from before) so then later on, i told jessica about what happend, then she told me to just go with him and that she doesnt like him anymore. but i still feel wrong if i say yes because i still think she likes him, i dont really know how to explain it but i really still think she does. but could i be missing a chance on a relationship that i wanted ? im so confused..

Answer 1

Well if he already didn't like her n the 1st place, I don't think ur doing anything wrong, because after all she did say she didn't like him anymore and to go ahead.

So I would say go for it since u and Kieve like each other. Jessica may fell a little uneasy but it's not as if she and he dated or even went out on one date.

He said he didn't like her because she wasn't his type.

And ur right she may still like he, but remember he's not her ex, he didn't like her the same as she like him AND u do like him too and he likes U back. So go for it

If Jessica holds it against u then u may have to talk with her and tell her that it was not ur intention to hurt her but u do really like Kieve and it just so happens he likes u back.

She will have to be strong and try to understand that if it was the other way around she'd want u to understand.

Good Luck

Answer 2

if you guys are close friends and like the same guy then you did the right thing by your friend and told her that guy likes you. worst thing you can do is not say anything and secretly date. she would mostly get upset.

now that its out, ask her if shes ok with you going out with him. let her know the facts, where he stands and talk about where you both stand too.
if its a yes and shes accepts he like you and wants to date, then go do it. she will feel it a little bit, but it will pass. anyways if shes a friend, she would understand that you like him to and it wont be fair on you if you cant date a guy who likes you and you like too. let her know this also.

if its a no, and you care for your friend more than the guy, then stay with your friend and let the guy know maybe some other time but not now. let him know your friend means more and she would get upset if you guys dated. you would only accept your friend no if its becuase going out with him would hurt her. if its jealousy, thats not fair on you. but if its an honest no, try again some other time in the future. your not blowing off the guy, your just saying he would ask again when friends feelings pass.

be honest and true to yourself, you shuold do ok. use lies and deciet and it will lead you to disaster.
-hope that helps - dave

Answer 3

i would stay with best friend, u only have 1 in a life time,there will be guys later.

Answer 4

Go for it! It's a chance worth taking!

Answer 5

If he likes you instead of her then why not take a chance! Good Luck!

Answer 6

IF THIS GUY KNOWS THAT SHE IS YOUR FRIEND AND STILL WANTS YOU TO DATE HIM THEN HE WILL BE NO GOOD FOR YOU. IT IS A FAILURE WATING TO HAPPEN. IT WILL CAUSE A FRIENDSHIP TO END FOR A GUY THAT DOESN'T HAVE MORALS ANYWAY. IF YOU ARE SECOND GUESSING YOURSELF NOW IT ISN'T THE RIGHT THING TO DO NOW OR EVER!!

Answer 7

just go out with him

Answer 8

if itz ok do it man or wman what ever .

Answer 9

just have sex, for God's sake!

Answer 10

AHH DUDE i HAVE DA SAME PROBLEM AS YOU i'M CONFUSED TOO WELL WUT MY HOMEGURL TOLD ME *** WUT PPL THiNK DO WAT U WANT TO DO BUT iDK CONFUSiN` HUH