Theres this kid I hate now and I used to be friends with him years ago. Hes in my Bio class now and I moved to a different table cuz he kept insulting me, saying Im a loser and have no friends. I have friends and I know Im not a loser, im very careful with my clothes because I have an urban style of clothing yet, i dont act like im something im not, anyway hes one of those kids that will stain your clean clothes with no regret, hes a shrimpy littler kid and im a big muscle guy (no brag intended) I could probably kick his *** but im scared too and i dont want to get in trouble because school means a lot to me, and he cant take insults and im not good at insults cuz im generally really nice, what the hell should I do?? I want to beat the snot out of him...hes a really bad person...
2006-09-14 14:59:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Fighting isn't the answer. It sounds like you have good head on your shoulders and I know it can be hard to ignore someone that is constantly pushing your buttons. And don't stoop to his level with insults that just puts you right down there with him.
Ignore it the best you can, it is only one class. And if you really feel you must do something...it is Bio class there are things that could "accidently" spill on his clothes...hmmm...thinking something being dissected or a dye.
But like I said you sound smart. Stay that way.
2006-09-14 15:04:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. I'm wondering why a smaller kid would taunt a larger one. He must have a real problem, what a sad kid! It wouldn't be worth what would happen if you lose your temper.
Also, I've found joking will diffuse an insult. And I don't mean sarcasm or making him the butt of a joke. If you can think of something funny to say, in a lighthearted manner, it can turn the whole thing around.
He: your clothes are ugly and you're a loser
You: really, you don't like this? I thought it matched my eyes.
He: you have no friends, you're a loser
You: wait a minute, I thought you and I were friends?
He won't know what to say if you turn it around like that.
2006-09-14 15:04:04 · answer #2 · answered by Esther 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my feelings are that i too am very nice. it takes alot to make me mad.
be the bigger person, let it go.
if school is important 2 you as it should be, dont let him get 2 u!!
you have 2 do the right thing even when others dont.
are u a christian? well wwjd??
its hard but do good.
totally ignore him. others may tell u things that he says that he really doesnt??
ppl love to get trouble started. trust me.
my best friend and i fell out (mad) for several days now. i wanted to stay mad, but it hurt me!!! i was the one to say sorry. i didnt start it. but i feel better now.
revenge sometimes isnt all that sweet.
just kill him with kindness.
keep your friends close, but your enimies even closer.
if he keeps on causing trouble, someone else will put him in his place, or teachers will catch him.
if it gets too bad, have a meeting with him, your familys and the principle. dont worry about what other ppl say. someday you want know them anymore anyway!!! do the right thing. remember :LIFE IS TEST AFTER TEST!!! PASS YOURS!!!each person must give an account for what they do, good and bad. including your pest.lol. good luck!!! peace out!! candy!!
2006-09-14 15:08:26 · answer #3 · answered by grasshopper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he doesn't mean any of it. Maybe he started out just poking fun at you and it got out of hand. When you stopped being nice to him, he got addicted to the fight to keep some kind of contact with you. Ask him if he is really in love with you. Then get him to laugh about it somehow.
Or, corner him someplace and tell him you are so nice that you won't shoot him in the eyes with a Luger, yet.
2006-09-14 15:05:03 · answer #4 · answered by auntiegrav 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure he is just insecure about himself. That is , however, no excuse to treat someone bad. What I would do is just laugh at him, every time i saw him i would laugh at him, and i would get all my friends to laugh at him every time they saw him. Eventually he will leave you alone or start a fight with you. Then you can kick him in the nuts if you need to and he will look even more the fool.
2006-09-14 15:05:06 · answer #5 · answered by therazorsback 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You REALLY want to trip him out...? Try being really nice to him... Pray for him, buy him a Coke, ask him what's he doin' over the weekend... Show him you're stronger by NOT fighting... Sounds to me like he's just trying to get a rise out of you... Or, he's just very lonely and needs some attention... Tell him to chill out and have a nice day...
2006-09-14 15:05:41 · answer #6 · answered by KnowhereMan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
under no circumstances cheer on fights, I propose if its a slapping interest to work out who can take care of the main slaps, thats distinctive. scuffling with is amazingly risky and could effect in a homicide case.
2016-11-07 08:43:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. you should only fight if you have to. This is not worth it.He is probably having trouble at home and his anger at you is a way for him to let his frustion out. Talk to him. If keeps doing this tell him he is not worth getting trouble for.I hope this helps you.
2006-09-14 19:39:38 · answer #8 · answered by bopper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him. If you fight him and whip his butt, he'll probably call the police because he is too much of a candy a** to take the whipping.
I've seen it before.
2006-09-14 15:02:17 · answer #9 · answered by Eldude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fight him cuz I got in a fight last year cuz this girl I used to be friends with just start calling me a bitich for no reason and I an't
done nothing to her ***
2006-09-14 15:03:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋