what signs should you look for if you suspect your spouse is cheating on you?

Answer 1

showering too much
late coming home
not interested in sex
perfume/cologne
irritability
non-chalantness (not caring)
finding excuses to leave the house/picking fights intentionally
phone hang-ups

Answer 2

They are happy. They are nicer than normal.

But the best way to tell is they have different interests.

For example they take an interest in a subject that they have never been interested before. What is happening is they are talking with their lover about subjects that are the interest of the other person which naturally provides information to your spouse.

Maybe a political interests or political person. Or a sports event or a type of art style. Wants to go to different events.

It sounds funny but Women usually get a yeast infection with a new lover. So if she doesn't get a yeast infection often or ever and has had one recent then it is a good indication. Also girls will get a new odor from the new bacteria that will last for about 2 to 3 days. So you need to get down there act like you want to lick some so you can give it a smell.

With guys, it is all about the smell. Get down there and smell the girl on him. Best to do it as soon as he gets home. The bacteria smell trick doesn't work as well on guys. But some woman are very musky and you can tell within a few hours after sex.

How do I know. Lived in a swinging relationship and we tested for fun ways to see if each had been laid. I can tell about every time now if I am looking for it. About 75 percent if I am not looking and I just notice by chance and ask.

Answer 3

I think sometimes so called signs can be misleading. There are perfectly good explanations for some of the behaviors that people start showing. Some "signs" that people like to suggest would be strange phone calls or numbers found in pockets. Spending more time away from home.....neglecting family duties....I think the best way to find out is to sit down and have a heart to heart and just ask the person. Being truthful with one another should be top priority. No one likes being left in the dark to play guessing games!

Answer 4

Your spouse will give you all kinds of excuses for everything and try to turn the tables on to you to make you think it's all in your head.
They will change how they do things..
Shower right after arriving home
Spend more time on their looks and gain or loose wieght
Shut off the cell phone
Come home late
Smell of some one Else's perfume or Cologne
money missing out of the bank account
expenses on the credit cards you didn't know about
lunches out of the office that didn't happen before
extra miles on the car
more stories then usually
they will put you off ..not want to hug or kiss or make love like they did before
~Sorry you feel the need to ask ..must be hard on you~

Answer 5

My best guess is if you have a record of being insecure then there might not be a problem. But if he has a record of cheating either on you or any of his past relationships keep your eye open. He might not see commitment in the same way that a lot of us do.
Do you catch him zoning out, smiling for no reason, neglecting to give you affection, excuses for getting close to you? You might want to go out with him and hang out at a place that he seems to enjoy. Notice how his friends are acting around you. They can sometimes confirm his guilt.
I hope that this helps you and that you in fact find that he is not guilty and thing get better for you and your relationship.

Answer 6

when it no longer feels or fits like a glove, more like you just went straight in with no resistance, you can't touch the bottom and you barely feel the sides walls, almost like your punching away and you notice that you are too small for that job.

Then all I can say is, it wasn't yours anyway and its too late to put on a condom.


or, you are asking this question, because you've cheated and now you want to point the finger at her --- you're guilty as charge, now everyone will read this and know that you are a cheat
you was just sharing it and you had to ask this question online

Answer 7

) You find birth-control pills in her medicine cabinet, and you've had a
vasectomy.

2) Mutual friends start acting strangely toward you. (They either know
about the cheating or have been told stories about what a horrible wife
or girlfriend you are.)

3) Your cheating husband or wife stops confiding in you and seeking advice from you.

4) Sets up a new e-mail account and doesn't tell you about it.

5) He leaves the house in the morning smelling like Irish Spring and
returns in the evening smelling like Safeguard.

6) She joins the gym and begins a rigorous workout program.

7) She buys a cell phone and doesn't let you know.

8) He sets up a separate cell phone account that is billed to his office.

9) The cheating husband carries condoms, and you are on the pill.

10) Begins to delete all incoming phone calls from the caller ID.

11) Deletes all incoming e-mails when they used to accumulate.

12) He becomes "accusatory," asking if you are being true to him, usually out of guilt.

13) Raises hypothetical questions such as, "Do you think it's possible
to love more than one person at a time?"

14) He buys himself new underwear.

15) He insists the child seat, toys, etc., are kept out of his car.

16) The cheating wife stops wearing her wedding ring.

17) Has a sudden desire to be helpful with the laundry.

18) Has unexplained scratches or bruises on his or her neck or back.

19) Suddenly wants to try new love techniques.

20) He/she fairly suddenly stops having sex with you.

21) He/she suddenly wants more sex, more often.

22) Supposedly works a lot of overtime, but it never shows up on the
pay stub.

23) Picks fights in order to stomp out of the house.

24) You find out by accident he or she took vacation day or personal
time off from work - but supposedly worked on those days.

25) Shows a sudden interest in a different type of music.

26) Spouse's co-workers are uncomfortable in your presence.

27) Has a sudden preoccupation with his or her appearance.

28) Spends an excessive amount of time on the computer, especially
after you have gone to bed.

29) He throws up a lot because he just ate at his mistress's house and
had to eat the dinner you prepared when he got home.

30) Your spouse is away from home, either nights or on trips, more
than previously.

31) His/her clothes smell of an unfamiliar perfume or after-shave. You
see lipstick on your husband's shirt.

32) The amount of money being deposited into your checking account
drops off.

33) You find items of intimate apparel or other small gift-type items that you did not give your spouse.

34) Your spouse seems less comfortable around you and is "touchy"
and easily moved to anger.

35) You get calls where the caller hangs up when he or she hears your
voice.

36) He/she loses attention in the activities in the home.

37) Your intuition (gut feeling) tells you that something is not right.

38) He/she has a definite change in attitude towards everyone in the
home.

39) She uses a low voice or whisper on the phone or hangs up quickly.

40) She has a "glow" about her.

41) Atypical erratic behavior.

42) He sneaks out of the house.

43) She sleeps with her purse by the bed

44) She goes to the store for groceries and comes home 5 hours later.

45) He tells you can get hold of him at a different telephone number.

46) The telltale signs of a cheating spouse? Having to ask that question
in the first place.

Answer 8

Some signs:


Change of behavior acts different evasive can be snappy
for no reason.

Calling out another Woman or Mans name out during sleep
or even the name of a motel

Change in sleep patterns and clothing styles

Calling out another Woman or Mans name by mistake during sex (big clue)

A partner who is cheating may display guilt feelings

A number of late long distance calls listed on his/her cell phone or telephone bill from other Women or Men when you ask
about it they snap. I'd also look for love letters or dirty e-mails, instanting messaging and late night chat activities on sights like jmeeting as a clue.

Secret trips for 2 or 3 days evasive answers when you ask
where they were.

Decreased sexual desire that doesn't add up

You discover scratch marks on your partners back and when
you ask about the bite marks he/she gets upset.

Answer 9

easily, a substitute in sexual habit in both direction might want to nicely be an illustration of dishonest. some adult men easily have extra sex with their better halves even as engaged in an affair because of the higher self belief and happiness they sense over some different person desirous to be with them. many circumstances, glaring indications ensue. The spouse will initiate to 'artwork' or bypass to the fitness center for lengthy hours even as they under no circumstances did before. in the experience that they unexpectedly have a second telephone or a sparkling digital mail handle. Their coworkers or mutual pals are uncomfortable on your presence. such issues as this. also, if he starts off to accuse you of dishonest.

Answer 10

How late there staying out. Doing things they you usually don't do. More worried about how they look when there not with you. Going places late at night and say there going out with a friend. Not answering there phone when there out. Whispering on the phone. Theres many different things keep in mind women are slicker than men beleive it or not.

Answer 11

Being gone from home at strange hours.
Quiet phone conversations that they hang up on quickly.
Phone calls at strange times.
Dressing differently, sexier perhaps.
Wanting to spend more time alone.
Making excuses not to spend time with you.
Hiding purchases or making strange purchases.
Notes with telephone numbers.

Those are just a few I've noticed (thank heaven not in MY marriage!)