however , I found out that when messaging from other ladies , they tend to message my husband ( bao bei ) which means darling , what should I do ?
Help me please .
2006-09-14 14:38:29 · 9 answers · asked by tay i 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Confront him now before it leads to more contacts, and eventually physical relationships. He may just be craving from you the attention he is getting from them.
2006-09-14 14:42:25 · answer #1 · answered by ncmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your husband calmly on this matter. I feel that by talking to your husband calmly, you should be able to handle the matter in a more logic way. It will be a tough task for anyone in your position to do such things coz you feel that you are being betrayed by someone you love most. But if you are too emotional duringn the discussion, I think you may not be able to made a very good judgement coz a lot of times emotion tends to get better of us.
The next thing you need to do is that you really need to think carefully on your future should your husband admitted that he had an affair outside. it is not an easy decision to made coz there are many factors that you have to consider. So the most important thing to do now is to talk to your husband on this issue
2006-09-15 01:10:54 · answer #2 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I guess what you should do is talk to your husband and find out why women are texting him and calling him darling. If you're not satisfied with his answer, then you might suggest that he consider your feelings and ask them to stop doing that. If he refuses, siting that it's just innocent talk, tell him that it hurts your feelings when he gets messages like that. If he cares for you at all, then there should be no problem getting him to have them stop. Good luck hon, and God Bless!
2006-09-14 14:43:59 · answer #3 · answered by kevin_p0 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Confront your husband and ask him if he is having an affair you deserve to know the truth for your sake and your child's sake. If he really truly loved you then he wouldn't be cheating on you.
2006-09-14 14:45:20 · answer #4 · answered by shannonamanda84 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How does your husband react? If he just says don't worry about it then I would be more curious but if he is more open about it and is willing to have you help him correspond then it's just a word, nothing more.
2006-09-14 14:42:53 · answer #5 · answered by RedC. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TALK TO YOUR HUSBAND AND FIND OUT IF THERE IS SOMETHING SERIOUS GOING ON BETWEEN HIM AND THESE LADIES. I DOUBT IT'S BUSINESS IF THEY'RE ADDRESSING HIM AS DARLING AND NOT BY HIS FIRST NAME OR MR. WHATEVER HIS LAST NAME IS.
2006-09-14 14:42:19 · answer #6 · answered by CHASE_ME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally your husband is very caring man, its apply to those ladies around him, internal and external.Get someone whom he respect, to advice his well being externally.
2006-09-14 15:36:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just come out and ask him and see,what he tells you,and then go from there.
2006-09-14 14:43:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-14 14:41:51 · answer #9 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋