I've been dateing this guy for over two years and we are pretty serious about each other. The first year together are sex life was pretty amazing, the second year things started slowing down. Just a few months before our 2 year anniversary things started slowing down a lot, to the point where if I was lucky i would get it once a month. I've tried talking to him and I've even told him how I feel that he dosen't want me anymore or even like touching me. All he wants is for me to give him oral sex but i get nothing in return. I'm losing my mind, I don't understand, Is it me?
2006-09-14 14:31:14 · 21 answers · asked by jetness22 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It depends. I've been in a relationship where sex was boring after 2 months. I've also been in one where it's been awesome for the last six years. Its all mental. I got tired of the first girl quick because she always wanted it, like 4 times a day. We did every position, she didn't care where we were, she was up for it. That's pretty cool for a little while, then it gets boring. Pretty soon we ran out of ideas, we broke up after a year. After we broke up we still saw each other sometimes, and the sex was awesome again! Weird huh? Now the current girl I'm seeing, she likes to have it about once a day, which is perfect for me. Sometimes she won't let me have sex and it drives me crazy. She'll only do a few positions, and it's still like a challenge to do something new. She knows what shes doing. In my opinion that's how you keep a guy interested in sex. If he gets too comfortable, he gets bored.
2006-09-14 14:33:31 · answer #1 · answered by Smirx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET RID OF HIM! Are you kidding? Listen to yourself: All he wants is for me to give him oral sex but i get nothing in return. Seriously hun, if it's been a while, it's not you - it's him. It's possible he's just found other interests, whatever they may be. You're too good of a person.
2006-09-14 14:35:56 · answer #2 · answered by kimilou2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. That is not normal. Because he don't give a damn about you and your needs. He's getting his. He's getting his oral sex and he is a happy camper. You on the other hand is getting nothing. Instead of losing your self-worth and your mind, lose that man.
2006-09-14 14:36:41 · answer #3 · answered by Bra Burner 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to try and spice things up a little.... send him naughty text messages during the day.... give him a show, watch a naughty video together....
But no its not normal - me and my partner have been together for 2 year too, and we have sex at least twice a week, but hed go EVERY night if i was up for it!!!
2006-09-14 14:59:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you wasting your time on this loser? It seems you couldn't GET any more hints that he is just using you as a fellatio machine. Dump this jerk so fast it make his head spin, or you will be in for YEARS of heartache! Trust me, I know...I was on the MALE end of one of these one-sided "user" relationships, and it hurt more and more as time went on.
Signed: Been There, Done That, But Never Again
2006-09-14 14:39:34 · answer #5 · answered by backinbowl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's him, he's a selfish lazy bum interested in his own cookies. Get away from him he doesn't love you much less respect you. Do you really think that things are getting better or will get better in the future? Give it up, he 's a total loss. He's selfish, self centered and so very immature.
2006-09-14 14:38:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not you. He may just not be interested in you anymore and is trying to get you to break things off so that he doesn't have to. It may just be best for you to end it and find someone who is interested, and will stay that way.
2006-09-14 14:34:58 · answer #7 · answered by Shorty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust me ... he's still interested in sex. Just not with you as illustrated by the fact that he avoids the more initimate, loving act of intercourse.
2006-09-14 14:36:19 · answer #8 · answered by brunchbuddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm asking the same kind of question, lmao, read mine, UGHHH!!!! I feel for you! If I had the answer I would NOT be in this predicament. The best of luck to both of US!!
2006-09-14 14:35:36 · answer #9 · answered by snowball24life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's obvisiously not into u anymore after two years he is proberly bored try role playing and sex games/toys might get him interested again goodluck
2006-09-14 14:56:57 · answer #10 · answered by darknightmare01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋