I like this girl I go to school with, a lot. Sometimes when I see her I get so nervous, I get cotton-mouth and I run away. Sometimes she corners me, and I have to talk to her. Which I wouldn't mind-if my heart wasn't beating a thousand pumps a minute. Saturday we're having a movie trip, and I asked her if the Black Dahlia was playing would she come see it with me. She said okay. My friend said this was an example of 'con date'. Was that wrong of me? What is wrong with me?
2006-09-14 14:07:55 · 9 answers · asked by Agent Double EL 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
By the way, yes she knows I'm a lesbian, and she is one too.
2006-09-14 14:29:36 · update #1
Love, go for her... (Hello, everyone, I'm her best friend) it wasnt wrong to ask her to see the movie with you, and she's cute, so make your move.******* Ride or die, fool! Ride or die! Love you
2006-09-15 13:27:56 · answer #1 · answered by Phedre D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youre nervous, thats whats wrong with you LOL. I mean, YOu dont sound very experienced at the whole courting deal, and youre not doing anything that we all havent done around people were into when were younger. I dont think you conned her into a Date. But if she is a friend, you might want to take a deep breathe and just say something to her about how you feel. Only two things could happen, Either shes not into you, and says so, and you can relax and move on..or she is into you and everyones happy.. either way, yer anxiety is eleviated. I know it seems hard, but slowly going batshit over the situation seems alot harder to deal with to me.
2006-09-15 03:47:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, if that's a con date, the whole world has con-dated!!! Nothing's wrong, it's just that you have strong feelings and don't know if this girl shares them. That happens to women, men, boys, girls, gays, straights, and bis. Be happy she said yes; enjoy the movie. Even if she ends up just being a friend, well, nothing's wrong with a new friend.
2006-09-14 14:17:31 · answer #3 · answered by GreenEyedLilo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aww haha i def. know how you feel...i'm in the same situation that you are in..it's like..you so totally want to talk to her...but you can't..all she has to do is say one word..and it takes your breath away..yeah..i know how it is lol..but noooo it is definately not wrong!! you're in an early stage of love..you have great feelings for her. so, you want to pursue a relationship? i say go for it...forget what your friend said and just go all for it...but does this girl know that you are les/bi..if you are? lol...i would end up telling her later on if she doesn't know..but if she does, then maybe this is her way of telling you that she likes you too!! i hope everything turns out great for you!!
2006-09-14 14:19:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no nothing is wrong with u doing that. even though im straight ive had many guys do that to me and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. All ur doing is asking her if she wants to meet up with u at the movies cuz ur going with some friends so yea. in other words nothing is wrong with u for doing that and its ok
2006-09-14 14:16:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you, you like this person but don't push it. Be a friend first,................. if her feeling are the same then go further(but not on this date) you don't want to frighten her.
Good luck, remember you are young and are still working out who you are and you don't have to rush anything.
2006-09-14 14:21:06 · answer #6 · answered by elvenlike13 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For one, you're VERY beautiful, so i discover your concern no longer common to image. it may desire to be that adult males think of they have not got a huge gamble with you; elegance is what many adult males %, and whilst they locate females who they think of are VERY captivating maximum get irritating and don't attempt and ask them out. you will get away the "basically friends" territory by utilising chatting with adult males your think of are lovable and getting to be responsive to them. Take issues gradual and capture up with to the adult males you have maximum in undemanding with. Oh and don't play the strategies-reader video games females frequently play with adult males. no longer a single individual can examine anothers thoughts so be open with your emotions to the guy you fall for, don't be shy approximately feeling attracted in direction of somebody, decide for it!
2016-11-07 08:36:34 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a con date. Your friend is wrong. Nothing is wrong with you.
2006-09-15 03:13:42 · answer #8 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so cute to hear you both ... there's nothing wrong with u, that's what i call love, congratulation for feeling in luv by the way ;) so go for it!!
2006-09-14 18:08:32 · answer #9 · answered by classy naima 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋