My fiance and I have been together for 2 1/2 years. We have been engaged for over a year. We are not planning on getting married until he graduates college. He has about 2 to 3 more years until he get his BA. We have already agreed upon not getting married until he had a nice job that could support both of us and me still being in college. By that time I will only have 1 more year...hopefully :-). People are saying that 21 is too young to get married, of course I would disagree, but it's not like I'm 16 and just met the guy. What do y'all think?
2006-09-14 14:05:49 · 8 answers · asked by Butterfly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Honey, by the time i was 21, i was married with a daughter and i wouldn't change a damm thing. we got critisized too, but hey, there is allways gonna be people who think they know better than you and try to run your life, but you sound like you got a good head on your sholders so you do what makes you and your fiance happy! congratulations and enjoy your lives together :)
2006-09-14 14:15:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't really begun to experience life yet. My sister was married and pregnant before she was 22 and now at 31 years old she's admitted that wishes that she would have waited. She never lived on her own, never dated anyone but her husband, never really traveled (without me or our my family) and the list goes on and on. She loves her husband and her 3 sons, but she has regrets. I think you will too. If you both are meant to be together, it'll all come together in the end. If not then it was never meant to be. Don't get caught up in the planning aspect of getting married. It's great (have done it myself) but 6 to 8 hours after you say "I do"; you "have" and it's back to reality. You're smart for waiting until at least one of you is done with college. Goodluck!
2006-09-14 21:16:07 · answer #2 · answered by Julie A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ja. Kind of young, if you ask me. For myself, I plan to wait for many years. At least until I am settled down and have a steady life. I also like having older parents. They are much more mature than the younger ones.
2006-09-14 21:15:17 · answer #3 · answered by Tet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you're asking the question answers it! It's good that you are going to wait another few years until your fiance is finished with school. If the love is true, you'll still be together... Good Luck!
2006-09-14 21:11:15 · answer #4 · answered by CxeLady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've known multiple people that got married at 18. So I would say no.
2006-09-14 21:08:54 · answer #5 · answered by mojo2093@sbcglobal.net 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you're righ. because i'm 18 and i have already been engaged and all thinking about the marrige right in next summer vacation.
2006-09-14 21:09:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not too young if you are both inLove. it's Love that matters not age.
2006-09-14 21:13:04 · answer #7 · answered by catsclaw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSS!!!!
2006-09-14 21:07:35 · answer #8 · answered by rowhard99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋