2006-09-14 13:51:50 · 22 answers · asked by fedup 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You can't besure..it is all about trust do you trust him if not ask your self why? and then follow those hunches and check them out. But with out trust you have nothing.....
2006-09-14 14:47:11 · answer #1 · answered by vtlovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. You have to have faith and trust but you can never be sure. Some of the men are really slick and the wife would never know that he is messing with other women. Watch COPS sometime when they are doing the JOHN roundups. I remember an old man about 65 being arrested in one of their stings. He told the officers that he had dropped his wife off to go shopping. In the process, he was going to get him a hooker for a few minutes while his wife shopped. It don't take long for them to do the deed!!!
A good test is to try to give him oral sex if you think he has been off with someone else. He won't let his wife do that if he has been with someone else. He would stop you.
2006-09-14 21:36:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both people have to work at keeping the marriage alive. If both people are working together they don't have the desire or time to be unfaithful.
I can be sure about my guy because we were both hurt by former spouses who cheated on us. We have promised each other that we will work at keeping communication a priority in our relationship and addressing issues before they become too big and one of us is tempted to look elsewhere.
2006-09-14 20:59:37 · answer #3 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have doubts you should look into it. A cheater is not to hard to catch. All you need to do is verify there location, when you think thaey may be up to know good. It works best if they think you are somewhere, where you are very unlickly to catch them. So your going to have to Lie to catch a lier! Tell him you are going out of town, or going to work late or something, and then do a little survalence. If he is cheating catching him in the act is as easy as being as sneaky as they are.
2006-09-14 20:56:12 · answer #4 · answered by dave25357 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't unless you follow him around 24 hours a day, check all his phone calls, quiz his friends and generally be a pain in the a**. You will have to give more info on why you are suspicious of him.
2006-09-14 20:59:57 · answer #5 · answered by Slimsmom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just continue on as if everything is ok, look and listen. Most of us guys will make mistakes like starting to do things differently or doing things we have never done before.
2006-09-14 22:16:14 · answer #6 · answered by d b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Throw him out. If he comes back soon, he is faithful. If it takes him so long to decide, then he is cheating on you. Mathematics. But be careful with this experiment.
2006-09-14 21:07:28 · answer #7 · answered by good-for-all 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you be sure your wife is being faithful? If you got doubts then you shouldn't have gotten married. Its about trust and obviously you don't trust him.
2006-09-14 20:55:59 · answer #8 · answered by truthbetold 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why worry about it. If he is cheating, he has to live with the guilty conscious. Trust him until he gives you a reason not to. Good luck.
2006-09-14 21:20:35 · answer #9 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it looks like a skunk, and smells like a skunk, then it probably is a skunk. Good luck.
2006-09-14 20:53:44 · answer #10 · answered by JillA 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋