Is it bad to be somewhat skeptical of him / her?
2006-09-14 13:51:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Without trust, what is a relationship based from?
You willl NEVER be able to let him/her out of your sight. You will forever be questioning the TRUE intentions of your partner.
As you grow older, you'll understand the value of trust.
Without trust, you can't commit. Without a commitment, you can't have a realtionship. It's just a friendship with kissing, if that.
So is it "bad"? That depends on your definition of "bad." Chances are you'll have have a true relationship. Chances are you'll be so worried that s/he is cheating on your that you can't sleep or function. Chances are you'll end up breaking up because you're afraid he's lying.
It's time to look at yourself and question why you don't trust. A bad history? A lack of self-esteem? Young Age? What? You can't base a relationship off of not trusting him/her. That's not fair to either party.
2006-09-14 13:56:41 · answer #1 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally, due to several long-term relationships & the damage caused by these so called 'loving' boyfriends, i am sad to say that i will not or cant ever trust 100% again. i know relationships are built on trust but if thats the way it has to be i would rather stay single. fingers burnt & once bitten-twice shy just about sum up how i feel and i havent always felt this way so my future has been spoilt by a couple of extremely evil men. it does not hurt to be skeptical - if only to protect yourself in the long run. to much trust is basically open to abuse & as far as i can see, not one of my friends is in a perfect/happy/trusting/devoted relationship due to their choice of men and certainly not caused by a thing that they have done.
2006-09-14 21:15:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a look at this:
About Trust In Social Skills Wiki
http://www.sidwiki.com/index.php?title=Trust
2006-09-14 21:01:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust completely, because real love must have trust. But, try not to be blind to reality - don't look the other way from obvious signs of infidelity if they are there, even if you don't want to see the truth. When you are in love, you can make yourself see only what you want to see. Been there.
2006-09-14 21:01:00 · answer #4 · answered by missouri bulldog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I trust my BF and he trusts me...if they haven't given you a reason to be skeptical of them, then try to avoid it...now if they've done something to make you feel that way, then you have every right to doubt...good luck!!
2006-09-14 20:58:18 · answer #5 · answered by lissad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋