she has had a boy friend who has been with her for 2 years and all she talks about is him and i just want to tell her how i feel but i dont want her to not want to be my friend no more i need help. what should i do?
2006-09-14 13:49:09 · 12 answers · asked by nico m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
maybe you shouldnt tell her cuz then she might tell her boyfriend and he wont like her hanging out w. you any more and it will ruin your friendship
2006-09-14 13:51:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's tough...Sounds like you are going to have to move on since she is in love with someone else. Try to put your feelings for her aside by distancing yourself from her, it's the only way. Stop being such a good friend to her since it is a lost cause, so it seems. Find a new girl to fall in love with who is not involved with anyone else. You don't honestly think that if you told her the truth that she will dump the other guy and be with you? And why waste your time waiting to see if she will be single again...sorry if this is not what you want to hear. Life is short and not always as we wish, so just try to make the best of it and move on to bigger and better things. She's just not the one for you...Good Luck!
2006-09-14 21:14:32 · answer #2 · answered by Cleareyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Comon, She has a boyfriend...
Why do you want her to be your girlfriend, when you know she has boyfriend? If you have a good reason and it's weight more than loosing her as your best friend, go ahead.
If not, keep you trap shut.
2006-09-15 03:00:04 · answer #3 · answered by David Fhu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIND YOUR OWN GIRLFRIEND THIS WILL MESS UP YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR FRIEND IF YOU MESS WITH HIS GIRL THEIR IS SOMEONE OUT THERE THAT DOESN'T BELONG TO SOMEONE ELSE THAT YOU CAN GO OUT WITH DO YOU FEEL ME STEP BACK THINK ABOUT WHAT YOU ARE SAYING YOU DON'T WANT TO LOSE A FRIEND OVER MESSING WITH HIS GIRL, BESIDE FRIEND NEED EACH OTHER FOR LIFE DO THE BEST THING AND FIND YOUR OWN GIRL FEEL ME
2006-09-14 20:54:53 · answer #4 · answered by applepiekiwi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems she regards you as a friend, and if you tell her how you feel, it will ruin the friendship, as far as she is concerned. It would be best if you open yourself to meeting other girls, and not be so fixated on her.
2006-09-14 20:57:19 · answer #5 · answered by Chatelaine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has a boyfriend then don't rock the boat. That will just complicate things. Try waiting till she is single.
2006-09-14 20:52:41 · answer #6 · answered by truthbetold 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell her but after you tell her make sure u say that you just wanted to get this off ur chest and u really dont want anything to change between you both.
if u think she wil get weird bout it then just dont tell her.
2006-09-14 20:53:10 · answer #7 · answered by darkvamp4542 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-14 20:51:18 · answer #8 · answered by drkhrse099 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Find someone else.....she is definitely taken. I think we all have to go through this sad part of life....but we do get through it.
2006-09-14 20:52:13 · answer #9 · answered by littleflower_57 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to keep your friend than keep your mouth closed
2006-09-14 20:51:42 · answer #10 · answered by babygurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋