fighting
2006-09-14 13:31:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If we are peace with GOD , we can Be peace with ourselves. if we are peace with ourselves, we can be peace with others.
why fighting? because every one of you expect love and peace from other member of the family, every one is drain , or no listeners. every one may want to talk. you try to be a listener. arrange for a small tour to near by place, cook the food to gather, sing ,dance, share the likes and dislikes in each other. pray for each other. appreciate verbally , if you find something is interesting in members of the family. then tell me
Is there any quarrelling now?
Thank you.
2006-09-14 19:01:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all have problems, usually we can work them out, but I think some of us don't cause no one wants to be the first to accept they are wrong, maybe its pride or something I'm not sure, but I also think that for some families the biggest reason its always fighting, is because the ones fighting with each other just can't see how alike they are to the one their fighting with. COUNSLING MAY HELP.
2006-09-14 20:41:21 · answer #2 · answered by ky gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we've all been through that. there are times in my family where we fight a lot, and I mean a lot, and I just can't stand anybody. But then you get past that and find out that it's because you love them so much, you all care about each other and that's why you fight. Believe me, someday you will need them very much and they will be there to support you no matter what.
2006-09-14 20:33:51 · answer #3 · answered by girl-06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean , It's just some families have more problems than others even though all have problems sometimes. I know what its like to have family like hell and it isn't fun...I'm looking foward to moving out with my boyfriend!
2006-09-14 20:34:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they know all the right buttons to push.
Years ago, my sister and i got into a fight. I knew she had just gotten her nose pierced so I slapped her right across the face.
Not saying that was right or nice, but I did it at the time because I knew the pain would shut her up.
2006-09-14 20:33:44 · answer #5 · answered by nikkimccarty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it has more to do with the spiritual realm and tormenting demons pray for God to free your family and fill your house with the Holy Spirit! Good Luck! and God Bless<><
2006-09-14 20:34:30 · answer #6 · answered by Marilyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's common in Hyena pack families to fight. Maybe you have ties to wolves or other pack dogs?
2006-09-14 20:33:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps everyone or most of them is only expecting something from others, instead of also considering what they can do to others to make their day beautiful !
2006-09-14 20:35:58 · answer #8 · answered by Spiritualseeker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey. I know all too well what you might be feeling. I wrote this as my journal entry... Hope it helps you know what to address yourself with:
Dear Father,
You were the greatest. You were the best. You were my Hero... you were my dad... but why'd you let me down father? This is not something I'll write down to make me feel better. My anger is still there, always has been.
I always wanted a dad who'll pick me up, when I fall. Who'll play with me, swing me till I'm dizzy, chase me everywhere. Annoy me; tell me jokes, read to me late at night. A dad who will hug me anytime, to tell me he loves me. Who knows all my friends, takes me out, keeps my secrets and tells me some in return. But it's far-gone - those days. So I spent these years watching you, wishing you look at me and ask me just once if I'm okay, why I stopped talking to you, why I cry. Ask me why I have an imaginary dad, I say goodnight to each night before I go to sleep. The least you can do now is teach me to not fall into your steps. To wipe my tears or lend me a napkin. Or let me make you proud.
Never did I ask you for something in return. You never encouraged me because you've never taken the time to learn I needed it. Father, you scare me. Your one smile, I will wait for - forever. I grew up without your love. You don't know the first thing about me. Time has run out on me and I've grown up before I understand. Despair on keeping secrets from myself. I'm in need to find happiness without you so I'm walking away from your concerns. You can sit there and blame me for becoming useless. I will never stand in a corner like a shadow hoping you talk to me. I've become a master at fearing you that you won't even hear me scream. Yet my heart is melting with your ignorance...
Stop the lies father, they don't help anyone. I don't listen to you any more anyway. Well, you can talk all you want, they seem like lies - each word. Sometimes I think maybe I'm wrong after all - but your misunderstanding convinces me I'm right. So I did something you evidently don't want - I met a Hero.
And he makes me happy and proud father. So safe, I feel bulletproof in my skin. Your anger is non-compared to the courage and strength he gives me. And no one can take his place.
I will give you no right to blame me for having a Hero. You don't trust me, and I can't trust you in return. Why don't you tell me what's on your mind father?
So I'm going to find myself a dad... and I'll keep him a secret from you. It's too late father - you can't be my dad. Please don't blame me father I tried my best to make you proud but I've un-earthed along the way you don't want to be proud of me. I can't afford to care... I will follow my heart from now on.
Your 16-year-old daughter.
P.S. My heart is not a rock, so if you want to talk, I'm ready because I still love you father.
Stay Safe. - Maryam
2006-09-14 20:38:37 · answer #9 · answered by piercing integrity 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
But in the end we still love eachother cause we are family.
2006-09-14 20:33:29 · answer #10 · answered by tee 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋