Do you think it is okay for a guy to buy toys. I mean toys for back there. You know. And do you know any site where they can be purchased from. Sites that are discreet.
Any tips or suggestions would be appreicated.
2006-09-14 12:32:39 · 19 answers · asked by Raziel 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Yes I do think it's okay.
My advice to you is to look at the products in a real store before buying.
For back there, consider a buttplug and a dildo.
Vibrators might interest you but have a nasty habit of breaking down. If you do get a vibrator for anal use make sure it has a hand held control rather than one stuck on the far end.
Personally I would advise a non-realistic dildo with ripples perpendicular to the shaft. Tapered is a good shape so that when you insert it, each ribble or ring pushes you a little more open. These are particularly nice when moved backwards and forwards.
A suction cup on the bottom makes any toy easier to use.
Also make sure that the toy is flared at the bottom. When you are excited and also when you ejaculate its very easy for the toy to slip inside. This is not such a problem if the toy is flexible, because then you can just poop it out, but if the is stiff it can easily slip sideways, and the effect is like trying to get a pen sideways out of your mouth. The natural pressure exerted by your digestive system will keep pressing down on the toy and you will have to go to ER.
THIS HAS HAPPENED TO ME.
A buttplug is also an entertaining toy, particularly when you are alone. Lube up and work the plug in. Most commercial buttplugs are far too small for much enjoyment. You really need to find a gay store to find an enjoyable one.
Finally check out the material. Silicon is by far the best material and it will not irritate when inside. Some cheaper toys seem to irritate and if you are allergic to latex you might have problems. Even though jelly dongs are nice I find that one they are too flexible to get in easily and two they are not always comfortable when in because the material irritates.
If you use toys you are also going to need a good lube. Any silicon oil sold as a sex lube is okay. These are also ideal for masturbating and are safe with condoms. Water based lubes are fine at first but quickly dry out.
Silicon oil does stain sheets, so put paper towels or an old towel over your "work" area first.
Enjoy.
2006-09-14 14:36:16 · answer #1 · answered by Augusta B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it certainly is ok for guys to buy toys.
Why should the ladies have all the fun....lol....
I'm sure there are lots of sites out there to purchase toys.
2006-09-14 14:41:48 · answer #2 · answered by Wayne 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure it's ok- if that is what u like. You should be able to purchase them off any site that sells them for men or women. Same thing.
2006-09-14 13:01:22 · answer #3 · answered by sexygal8321 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
www.goodvibes.com
And yes, I believe it is perfectly acceptable, whether a person identifies as homosexual or identifes as any other sexual orientation.
I would suggest buying a book about anal health and safety as one could injure themselves if they don't know what they are doing back there ^_~ the skin there is only 1 cell layer thick so it tears easily..
2006-09-14 12:39:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes I think it's fine...I'm sure there are lots of discreet places to buy them from.
2006-09-14 12:38:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
all will be discreet when mailing you the package. there are so many, if you're using a public library adult content will be banned. is the guy open for toys, don't waste money if he isn't.
okay, ready
www.adammale.com
www.buygay.com
www.playboy.com
www.blackinches.com
www.jiffyfullment.com
Aaah so i see you're into tarot cards, anything else new agey?
2006-09-14 12:47:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Www.blackinches.com
2016-10-18 05:48:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can buy that stuff from E-bay. Its a helluva lot cheaper than a store. It sounds like your talking about butt plugs, yep they got those too!!!!
2006-09-14 12:37:22 · answer #8 · answered by tmills883 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why not? Toys and food always make sex hotter.
2006-09-15 03:38:01 · answer #9 · answered by ninapanama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-14 12:47:51 · answer #10 · answered by aLeX™ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋