My boyfriend and i just had sex last month and the doctor says i have cramps a lot because i'm haveing a baby in 6-7 months. My boyfriend wants to have sex and i do too, but i really have this stomach ache we've been doing it for the past week and i don't know what to say to him. I have told him about the babyhe's excitited, but he wants to have more what can i say to him?
it really hurts when his d!kc goes up!!!
2006-09-14 12:10:03 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Tell him like it is! It hurts! Consider my feelings! How would he like it if you grabbed his nuts when they were sore. It is called respect!
2006-09-14 12:12:49 · answer #1 · answered by yoohoosusie 5 · 6⤊ 0⤋
It shouldn't hurt. Sometimes, orgasm simulates a contraction and can be painful. If you are having trouble, try different positions. If that doesn't work, maybe you guys can focus on pleasing one another with different techniques.
He needs to get used to the idea of taking care of the problem himself too. LOL. He won't be able to do anything with you for a bit after the baby is born!
2006-09-14 19:18:30 · answer #2 · answered by Dave 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Awwww that's too bad I had a stomach ache one time.Well Golllllllly. As Gomer Pyle would say.
2006-09-14 19:18:43 · answer #3 · answered by zen2bop 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations on the new baby and much luck! You need to tell him straight up. Tell him it causes pain and if he wants you to be healthy then stop having sex. Also he needs to be gentle,ask your doctor about save sexual positions. That way u and your man can be happy
Good Luck!
2006-09-14 19:15:45 · answer #4 · answered by DPrice 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i stopped having sex with my husband after 5 months pregnant because it does hurt (a bit) but i was very worried for the baby... if your bf can't have the same concern about your baby, then just tell him to go f*** himself. otherwise, do a lot of foreplay and finish everything outside - without intercourse...
2006-09-14 19:14:47 · answer #5 · answered by carpenoctrum 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
you need to think of the safety of you and your child if you boyfriend keep having sex and it hurting you it might be hurting you baby. the first trimester is the easiest to lose a baby, if you want the baby be careful and tell you man no. he will get over it if he really wants his baby.
2006-09-14 19:20:22 · answer #6 · answered by Cee 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well your boyfriend should understand when you hurt, YOU HURT!!! You can have sex at another time, have you tried different positions?, This might eliminate some of the hurt for you when he inserts himself.
2006-09-14 19:21:40 · answer #7 · answered by shero67 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to go jerk off. He's being a selfish insensitive jack@ss. What the hell? Does he not understand that you are pregnant...carrying his child? Or does he only think of you as his sex toy?
2006-09-14 19:30:51 · answer #8 · answered by yogurtsoju 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
use your hands or your mouth if you are in to that, as long as you are playing with the guy down stairs till he throws up he will be fine. and you should explain that it hurts you badly to have sex, eventhough the more sex you have would make it more easier to have the baby when its time.
2006-09-14 19:14:33 · answer #9 · answered by DUSTY 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well just explain to him that u dont want to and tell him why and if he really loves u he will understand and if he doesnt too bad because u dont have to have sex with him if u dont want to
2006-09-14 19:13:04 · answer #10 · answered by droppantsnotbombs 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You need someone to tell you what to say to your boyfriend? If you can't figure that one out then you shouldnt be having sex at all.
2006-09-14 20:12:37 · answer #11 · answered by Desiree S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋