I just left my husband but the sex was great! How do you get over that? Now I get nothing at all. (I have 5 kids so don't suggest crude things please)
2006-09-14 11:48:00 · 12 answers · asked by ~SSIRREN~ 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
The key here is the best intimacies "so far". There is a whole world out there. You won't necessarily get over it, as you spent long years and had many good times. But there is always something new just over the next hill, as long as you keep going and crest that hill. I got divorced six years ago, and married shortly after. The second one has been so much better, now that we both know the rules and what mistakes to avoid. Hang in there ssirren, it will all be good :)
2006-09-14 12:58:58 · answer #1 · answered by Toyman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take some time to access your situation as it will take some time to get used to being without intimacy. I have been through a similar circumstance years ago. Visit people when you can as that helps get your mind off things and keep giving your kids all your love. I wish I had a better answer as this will take some time but I hope all the best for you.
2006-09-14 18:58:47 · answer #2 · answered by toughguy2 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband left me 3 weeks ago. I have two kids, but of course they're only 3 and 1 so they don't use the internet 'much' lol
l Know how you feel. I drank for the first two weeks, and now I'm trying to figure out how to deal with the empty lonely useless feelings I have. I wish I could say something wise and introspective to help you. All I can actually say is, I feel your pain and I am sorry. Be strong.
2006-09-14 18:54:11 · answer #3 · answered by Suspended 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sweetie, that's when you call up a REALLY good guy friend. chances are he's be DYING to "help" out anyways...now that the "A" hole hubby is gone the path is clear!
*wink*
Marty...*yes you are entitled to your opinion*, BUT a man has urges..and that's "okay" why the hell can't woman? in MY opinion, perhaps the only women you've been with are cold and dead sexually! HOW boring for you, and a bit sad!
2006-09-14 18:50:50 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really wish I knew...I wasn't married to mine, but I can't stop loving him....the only thing to do is give yourself time and be good to yourself...find some good friends and have some fun...and most of all, don't rush into another relationship until you are ready...
but that is not to say that you can't have some fun in the meantime :)
2006-09-14 18:55:43 · answer #5 · answered by The Trooper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U'll find some one. But for now theres always "toys". Being serious. If u want more then that, then be patient, some one else will come along.
2006-09-14 18:57:43 · answer #6 · answered by a7xrios 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will find someone else who gives it good too. Go out and play around for awhile(but be SAFE) Youll find it
2006-09-14 18:50:42 · answer #7 · answered by pryncess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do some dating and "test drive" some new models!!
2006-09-14 18:53:18 · answer #8 · answered by joalteeth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps a new partner could enlighten your desire[s]
2006-09-14 18:52:30 · answer #9 · answered by Jubei 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alot of crying..alot of wine...and alot of time ..good luck to you
2006-09-14 18:50:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋