My BF says its not his baby?

Question

I am loyal to my man and he is the only one i have and i love.We had sex on (, 13 and 20 day from my periods.I have this gut feeling that i am pregnant.I was telling that i feel as if i am preggoo but he flipped out and said that its not possible as he did not came in me,he came on my stomach.HE thinks that if by any chance i am pregnant its not his baby as we just started having sex about a month ago.Honest and valuable answers plz.I need genuine answers.Help me and gimme ur advice.How can i prove him that if i am pregnant this baby is his?

Answer 1

well girl when i was 16 i had a miscarrage by the guy i lost my virginity to and he swore up and down it was not his then one night he called me up and told me he hated me he hated my unborn baby he was goin to pay someone to beat the baby outta me b/c it wasn't his and he was goin to kill me and all other type of bs then i woke up the next mornin and had to use the restroom and i was bleedin and i knew i was pregnant and that wasn't normal i went to the hospital and i had a miscarriage so i guess my answer is forget him if he doesn't care enough to claim ur baby he's no good and don't stress urself out over him. I had a miscarriage b/c of stress so stay calm. sorry low down man

Answer 2

The first thing that I would do is break up with him, the fact that he is not trusting you nor believing you about such a serious matter, should tell you how highly he thinks of you and the sad thing is that you are so busy trying to convince him otherwise and/or trying to prove to him that you are trust worthy that you are forgetting the most important thing, YOU! - - - You need to give yourself some respect, because if you do not give it yourself, he will never have it for you either... If you are pregnant, you should just tell him once you are positive and if you decide to keep it., I would tell him, I will see you in child support to take a paternity test and so you can put up for with your financial responsibilities. If you choose to be a beat up dad and not be around, so be it, it will be your lost... You do not say how old you are, but I hope that you are old enough to be able to provide for yourself and your child if you were put in such a position and that you are not just a young chick like these air heads out there freaking out because you only count on HIM... Another thing is why are you not using protection, you need to make sure that you always take care of yourself, because before you become a man's baby's mother, you need to make sure that HE has made you his wife first... Give yourself value, respect and make him give it to you as well. You do not need to prove anything to anyone but yourself, you are not a child and therefore, do not need to play childish games. This should be an eye opening experience, when the tough gets going, he chickens out., he must be a young guy because actions will tell how mature and responsible a man will be., and if he is not a good man, bet for sure that he will not be a good father either...

Answer 3

There is something called pre ejactulation... he may not have even known he "came" in you a little. If you are pregnant, the only way for him to be certain is to have a paternity test once the baby is born. From the sounds of it, you are both very young. Many men, especially the younger ones, when faced with the possibility of being a father get scared and their first instinct is to say there is no way they are the dad... It doesnt mean they are bad people just scared. If it turns out that you are pregnant, try not to let what he says and denies to bother you too much.. it will all be clear once the baby is born and tests are done. If you are not pregnant and are going to continue to have sex, please please wear a condom. There are more worries than just getting pregnant. STD's.. some of which your partner may have and not even know about. One called HPV is carried by men but does not affect them in anyway but can be easily transmitted to their female partners through intercourse. In females it can cause cancer. Im not trying to preach to you just want you to be safe. Take Care.

PS: Your feeling that you could be pregnant could just be nerves so dont freak out or even talk to him about this anymore until you see if you miss your period.

Answer 4

First, I'd wait until you've actually missed your period and have had a pregnancy test before worrying about whether or not a baby is on the way.

It is possible you could be pregnant even if he did not *** in you. It isn't likely, but it isn't impossible. Guys tend to drip semen before actually cumming. It acts as a natural lubricant during sex and does contain sperm. So yes, you could be pregnant if you had unprotected sex.

From the sounds of it, if you are pregnant, it'll probably take a paternity test to convince your boyfriend that he is the father. And if you aren't pregnant, you should probably take this as a lesson to either not have sex in the first place or to start practicing safe sex because it sounds like your boyfriend isn't ready to grow up and be a father yet.

Answer 5

Only a blood test after the baby is born will prove that.

And if he is determined not to accept this, he probably won't even believe that.

I'm being very honest and sincere with you here: this guy sounds like a very irresponsible man and not very supportive towards you.

If I were you, I would hope that I am not pregnant, and then get some very reliable birth control going ASAP, so that you will not be likely to get pregnant until you have a man who trusts you and wants you to have his baby.

Answer 6

first find out if you are really pregnant. then if you are, give him some literature on birth control methods and how reliable they are, the method he used is not at all reliable, since even pre-ejaculate contains semen. However, you won't be able to prove to him that he is the father until after the baby is born and you can do blood tests.. I have the feeling that you are worrying about nothing, though. And next time, use a condom and the pill

Answer 7

First things first, wait and see if you are pregnant for sure first. No need in getting worked up about nothing. Some men want to have sex but not a baby. Maybe he didn't get it out fast enough. It is possible. Nothing is 100%. If he doesn't want kids then maybe he should think about getting snip snip. And maybe if you are not you may want to think before having sex with him again.

Answer 8

first I want to tell you that if you are not you need to drop this man like a bad habit, since you know how he is know and I HIGHLY DOUBT that he will change. next there is nothing you can do to make him believe that the bay is his, until after the baby is born and you have a DNA test done. I hope for your sake that you are not, because it isn't easy being pregnant and having a BF that is a total A S Shole

Answer 9

Even if a guy withdraws, small amounts of semen can still come out during intercourse, which can still get you pregnant. It's called pre-***. You need to get a blood test. And probably a lawyer to force that deadbeat boyfriend to support the child he helped create. Also, use protection. For the love of god, use protection.

Answer 10

look it up on the net with him beside you . you can get pregnant without the guy having an orgasm .there are sperm in the pre fluid that serves as lubrication . if he still denies the baby is his then he is ignorant and stupid and can just find out after the baby is born . if you decide to have a d n a test .
good luck !